Child's name name name judgment

I gave birth yesterday, and my oldest daughter is 1 month old.
The older one is a boy.
It's the girl I've been waiting for, and even before I became pregnant, I decided on a name with my husband and mother, saying that if it were my second girl, I'd like to name it this.
Then, pregnancy and gender were discovered, and I was calling out to my stomach by that name the whole time, but when I judged my first and last name with a light feeling (books and internet), there were only bad results...
I thought about it again and thought of a different name, but nothing more than the original name came up except for first and last name judgment, thoughts, wishes, meanings, etc...
My husband and people around me are the type that doesn't care about name judgment, so I decided on the original name in order to cut off the name judgment anymore. I also decided to trust the opinions of those around me I trust rather than someone I didn't know judged them.
However, I still regret whether this was good or that I had to carry something heavy on my back, and I'm crushed by anxiety and guilt, and I'm about to become depressed.
I'm worried about how to solve this problem.

4 Zen Responses

I'm worried because I care about it.

I think there is advice from someone who has been doing specialized research on the merits and absence of name judgment.

> I still regret that this was good or that I had to carry something heavy on my back, and I'm crushed by anxiety and guilt, and I'm about to become depressed. I'm worried about how to solve this problem.
As for the question, in the first place, I wonder how much Sakura believes in name judgment.
The solution to this problem is that you don't have to believe in the name judgment itself, so isn't there anything to worry about?
I think the basics will change depending on where you put your points.

If you're a foreigner, is the alphabet judging your first and last name?

Judging your first and last name, if you're a foreigner,
Is it something universal that works with alphabets and Hangul characters?

I don't think you need to worry too much about deciding your first and last name.

Personally, rather than judging names, I think it would be better to imagine what kind of nickname you are likely to be given when you become an elementary school student.

is that the time to say that?

“I regret that I made you carry something heavy on my back”
This is a story about when my firstborn child was born. When I held my first child with amniotic fluid all over my body and my head still sharp, while feeling the joy of my child's birth and the mystery of life, I was thinking exactly the same thing as you.

In other words, when people were born into this world, everyone is already carrying something extremely heavy called [four hardships]. And in this life, we are being asked to solve it brilliantly and do even more serious homework as a set.

This is not the time to argue about good or bad names.

It's a name you chose with your wishes, right?
What do you do when your parent breaks your heart...

Don't worry

If fate and fortune are determined by the letters and number of strokes in the name, then since humans have had a certain amount of history up until now, statistical data has also been accumulated, and it should be roughly the same name.

And if they had the same name, there's no such thing as whether they would have the same fate or fortune.

In other words, fate and fortune are not determined by name.

She's the girl you've been waiting for. Congratulations on your birth. Have a happy time with your family.

Names are wishes from parents to children. It's best if it's a name that your parents lovingly wished for. I can't wait for the day when I can tell my kids what their names mean.

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