I'm being made to speak ill of it.

“I'm only telling the facts” is an astonishingly good translation. In response to Mr. Hook's “don't tell me,” the point of discussion is off in terms of whether it is fact or falsehood. In other words, that person probably doesn't feel like quitting. In addition to getting better, it's best if you can keep a mental distance from your neighbors, but is that difficult? Like shifting the time zones of one's life, such as taking out the trash or shopping.

If you're someone who talks bad about them because they want to annoy them, it's meaningless if the other person isn't in trouble, so if Mr. Hook lives a lively life every day, he may eventually become miserable and stop.
If bad talk itself is pleasant, no one will go out with such bad talk forever, so I think people around you will understand eventually.
However, I'm worried that Mr. Hook will be exhausted before that.

If this happens, let's feel like you've earned it by thinking that your colleagues, family, and friends are smiling and having them show you a good quality daytime drama. Please just have fun reporting it. If you do that, over time, your friends will ask, “How are your neighbors these days?” You should be asking.
The characters are disgusting neighbors who are always mean, and the bright and positive heroine is of course Mr. Hook.

There's only one way to save you.
It's about withdrawing from the “People Who Love Thoughts Association.”
First of all, please be aware that you are already steeped in information ♡ and have a habit of wearing innerwear. That's why I'm worried about people's rumors. The Saints loved facts.
It was written not in the Buddhist scriptures but in the calendar that changing what others think is more difficult than killing cockroaches around the world (laughs)
You may not be aware of it, but you are already definitely an inner person.
First, please separate the world of A thoughts (inner) and the B fact (real) real world.
The fact that humans know the boundary between Tokoton A [world of information” and B [world of facts] is expressed as ❝ opening the door to enlightenment ❞. When you finally know the difference between the world of thoughts and this real world of facts, you will quickly graduate from being a resident of the information world.
People who only believe in facts are not misled by information.
Like Saito-san in the drama, they don't give in at all to the information around them.
There used to be a time when I too was swayed by human information.
I didn't watch TV for a while, and I didn't believe in any weekly magazines or newspapers that made funny comments about people in order to make our own money.
Similarly, in order to relieve my own complexes, I tried not to go out with people who would use others to emerge. The results are easy, super ~ ♡.
There are a few people I can call my best friend in life. You shouldn't deal with people you don't really deserve to call friends. That's because you only have one body.
That's because there are only 24 hours a day.
This is because I actually only have a few hours a day when I'm awake to spend time with my family, excluding meals.
You should take pity on yourself for being swayed by other people's rumors for that precious time.
You should spend more time living a real, factual life, not your inner self.
My best friend who really matters is ❝ just now a fact ❞.
Facts only exist outside of the information world.
Conclusion: You say you want to be a person who doesn't care about people's bad comments or evaluations, yet you're using your thoughts at the same time. Becoming a person who really doesn't care about such things means being aware that you were a member of the Human Association of People Who Love Thoughts, and leaving (thinking noncontemplation).

Why don't you talk to the police or law terrace?
Even if I try to change within myself, it's not God
If it piles up, it's an allergic reaction
Your mental state may go wrong.

Mr. Hook

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

This time, I was made to speak ill of things and rumors by my neighbors, and I asked them how they were having trouble.

Neighbor trouble is a bit complicated when it comes to real trouble because you can't get away easily and it's close, so it's not easy to get away with it without meeting someone...

I wonder if there is any cause... is it just harassment, do you have something at the root, do you like Mr. Hook... or there are times when trivial things have become misunderstandings and cause trouble, so it's not “I want you to stop it,” but “why do you do that?” I heard that, and I think it might be better to directly resolve the cause, but... of course, if you don't feel like discussing it anymore, it can't be helped...

By the way, we have received the following questions before.

Question “Do I have to apologize, and how should I live my life?”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/212

As for “how should I change myself,” I am proposing “to continue to do good deeds” for local people at this time. Of course, this doesn't mean that this is all you can, but if you don't do bad deeds and don't feel ashamed or embarrassed about your actions, honestly, you don't care about what others say or think. Conversely, if you try to deal with the worry of “anger,” in the end, only bad results will be brought about, so you need to be careful.

In terms of Buddhism, if you are in such a situation, on the contrary, you will be grateful to your neighbor for giving you an opportunity for good training called “patience.” Of course, I know it wouldn't be easy to get to that point under normal circumstances, but rather than not doing anything, if you can appeal to them with a “smile” every time you meet them, even if you don't talk about it at all, your partner will eventually lose that feeling, and the situation may improve.

I sincerely pray that Mr. Hook will stay safe and secure.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho