Can you be happy while still having an inferiority complex?

Hello, Kayo-san.

You have an introverted personality and aren't good at relationships.
There are all kinds of humans, and they are human. Everyone gets tired when there are only bright people (laughs).
There are always people who like your personality.

I'm also an energetic person with a sense of inferiority on the other side, so I understand that very well. I don't seem to have many friends (laughs). Originally, I loved being alone. Being alone is fun too. First, it's important to enjoy living alone. Have a hobby and enjoy being alone. Then you can naturally make friends through hobby connections. Start by talking to fellow hobbyists on the internet!

Inferiority complexes are also personalities, so it's hard to get rid of them. That's why I also suffer from an inferiority complex, but when I think I'm suffering from an inferiority complex, I stop working hard for a bit and immerse myself in fun hobbies. That's how they got through it.

If you don't have any friends and don't talk to each other, be friends with me. Let's have fun talking on the internet on a daily basis and occasionally on the phone. That's because I came all the way to Hasunoha. I think it's better than a fortune teller (laughs).

Find your own joy after affirming yourself that you are a negative person. There are so many fun things in life. Let's find something we like and enjoy it.

I support you. Good luck! I'm looking forward to hearing from you (laughs).

Gassho

Inferiority complex... who decided on the inferiority complex in the first place? That's it.
When I was in middle school, too, I was short, I wasn't very smart, and my motor skills weren't good at all, but even if I had children I liked, I thought I was like this... and it was just an inferiority complex.
Meanwhile, was high school suddenly forced to go deep into the head mountain? But even with my sense of inferiority, these were days of so-called ascetic practice where I couldn't think about such things.
Eventually, I went on to high school and college, and when I graduated and came back and faced reality, my sense of inferiority sprang up again. However, at one point, when I thought about an inferiority complex, in the end, I was just comparing myself to others without permission, and there was no value or effect.
When you have an inferiority complex, you're not popular at all. Because I don't have confidence, I don't move forward because I think it won't work anyway. But if I stop doing that, I'll be fine...

An inferiority complex is something you make yourself, worry about yourself, and have nothing to do with others at all.
In Kayo-san's question, when will the sense of inferiority disappear? It frees me from my sense of inferiority at this moment when I think so. So it's fine.

I read it.

If my parents keep telling me “I can't change that,” I feel like I'm the wrong person now.
Your perception is probably normal.

But what does change mean?
I don't understand either.
Isn't it okay if you just stay who you are?

This is said to be the wrong self, and it is precisely because they grew up that people who behave cheerfully are regarded as normal.
I think that's who I have to change.

But you can't be someone else.
Conversely, the state where you're playing a self you can't get used to is your fake self.

You're probably overdoing it somewhere, just like you think you're seeing through people with no content.
Unbeknownst to me, I think my self as not myself is showing up.
I think so.

The same goes for going outside even though I don't want to go outside.
They just come home hurt.

The words of a heartless man were extremely ruthless words, but if you overdo it, they may somehow be conveyed.

Well then, it comes down to what I am, but I have no substance.
So, if you create your own even though there's no substance, it becomes unnatural.

The words “blue blue light yellow yellow light” appear in sutras.
It means that blue flowers are shining blue, and yellow flowers are glowing yellow.

That's natural...
It makes me laugh, doesn't it?

But are you shedding your light?
Have you grown up until now and have you got a habit of turning blue flowers yellow?

When you go outside, it's like walking around trying to paint your face with yellow paint.

I also have an inferiority complex.
But depending on how you have a heart, it can also help you.
For the most part, it's painful...

However, the reason it's getting harder is because we live naturally.
I don't think it's miserable.

It hurts when people say things that make me laugh or deny myself, but...
If that were the case, I would deny that itself.

I'm living my life the way I am, so that's fine.
It's breathtaking to just accept people's values.
I'm going to live my whole life with an indomitable heart.

Please have a natural attitude to live a leisurely life with your own self.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, and it's not a mistake.
Rather, that is the correct answer.

The movie “Tired,” starring Tsuchiya Taiho and is currently being screened, also has an inferiority theme. Feelings of inferiority can be overcome in terms of appearance and personality.
Chanting Chichinbuibui ♪ and a magic spell is a Chichibu commercial.

() Ahahahaha! funny face!
The main character, Tange Tanko, grew up being mocked.
Every time I look in the mirror, I have negative thoughts.
“() Wow... if I don't have this face...!”
I feel bad every time I look in the mirror.
Break it! Gachan!!
“Yes, you don't have to watch!”
Tango breaks a mirror.
My second self appears there.
Ohohoho!
() If you break a mirror, that face won't change! 👠
You can't run away from me. from this ugly face...!
(.) At best, it's convex with purikura! HA-HA-HA!!
Wow... who got their eyes so big without permission in a machine that denies all their original faces!
What should I do? That's right!
Let's talk about it, that free site, that site where boys answer without payment ♡
Then a boy gave this advice.
“Are you aware of the soles of your feet right now?”
“huh?”
“Look at the soles of your feet. Someone is watching you.”
Then, there it is...! A third eye that looks at you!
Fish eyes! hey!
“When you were looking at the soles of your feet now, were you aware that your face was ugly or fat, that you had temple debts, how your personality was, or that you were dumped when you were in high 1?”
(°°°) “...?”
(Omega) “I wouldn't have picked it up. Everyone thinks so.”
“One thought?”
“The only problem is what you think when you make that a problem. The feeling of inferiority that torments you is your heart. way of thinking. Negative thoughts are created there every time. It's all just me bullying myself.”
“That's not true! I'm still suffering!”
“Well ❝ that's not true! Who said I'm still suffering now ❞? when is it?
“... it's me...”
“Yes. you. Also, a little bit. When did you think of that?”
“Now?”
“No. That was just now. They probably don't care about it anymore.”
“ah”
“Do you understand the meaning of one thought?”
“Does that mean I do it every time? By myself”
“Yes.”
Tango began to see the true nature of her own sense of inferiority.
“Oh, I... was sick because I was worried about that?”
(*'｀) Looks like you've noticed... ✨ Perfect!