Wouldn't it be bad if the goal wasn't clear?

I read your question.

There are many people in the world, but not everyone has goals and dreams, and they are not moving towards them.
Rather, if I had to say it from my experience, it seems that few people move towards clear goals and dreams after becoming adults.

There are probably many people, like Marie, who have spent their time “somehow.”
Or, there are probably many people who spend their time being swept away by others.
It's not a good or bad thing.

However, people who have clear goals and dreams and are working hard towards them still shine when watching, and they look wonderful!
Also, it gives the person in question a sense of fulfillment in life and enriches their feelings.

Goals and dreams are not something you create by force; I think they naturally sprout through your own experiences, etc.
I don't think there's any need to be so impatient.

Marie

Having goals is important!
It is often said. I've also been told a lot since I was a kid.

This is because if you don't know what you want to be or where you want to go, you'll get lost.
I love traveling, and I think it's fun because I have a destination.
Wandering aimlessly while traveling is free and fun, but if you have a goal of “going anywhere,” you can go to various places much more efficiently.

There are times when I get on an airplane, but I can't feel safe on an airplane where I don't know the destination.

The same goes for life.
If you don't know where you are now and where you are headed, you will live an uneasy everyday life. That is the state of being lost.

When you're at a loss, it's also necessary to stop and check where you stand now.
This is because you will get lost over and over again.

If you have goals, your actions will change, and so will your future.

Like Marie, I also yearn to live leisurely and optimistically, and that is one way of life.

However, since I want to be exposed to various experiences and knowledge, I think it would be a waste of time. That's why I've set some goals.
This is because if you have a goal, it's clear how you should act.

If you have goals, your actions will change.
However, even if you don't have a goal, you can enjoy it in your own way, and you may not make a big mistake.

At the end of the day, it's about deciding what you want to do.
I don't really understand what I'm trying to say, but I'm envious of Marie's way of life.

” I think there are a lot of things that have been decided by “somehow.”
You say that now, but I'm sure you've thought properly from time to time and made a reasonable decision. The reason I think so when I look back on it later is probably because you somehow understood that “good things are thanks to you, bad things are rust that comes out of the body” (Aida Mitsuo).

The word “self” comes naturally; it is not the character of the person who did it; the word “natural” is a phrase when it is empty. (parent)

It's true that when you're trying to accomplish something big, you need a clear vision. However, if that also means “being pressured by necessity” in a sense, it is still within the category of [nature] theory.

I don't think success is all about breaking through difficult hurdles and finally making the impossible possible with the momentum to drop flying birds. I think it is truly precious to be able to live naturally without damage (without any trouble) today and every day tomorrow.

Hello Marie.

Goals are important, but if you're good at the moment, don't force yourself to make them. Slowly search and find your purpose in life and set goals there.

Life lasts until death. Let's go slowly without hurrying. You're sure to find something that fits you.

Gassho