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I want to fix my personality that changes drastically when I drive

Hello, this is my first time posting.
Thank you for your support.

I'm a fourth year college student and I'm 22 years old.
There are often “people whose personality changes drastically when they get behind the wheel.”
I'm really a person who “changes my personality drastically” and I can't improve, and I'm worried about what to do.

For example, when I was first waiting for a traffic light.
When the distance to the following car is close in the rearview mirror, the car starts rapidly at the timing when the traffic light turns blue because I don't want to be incited,
Speed above the legal speed and keep a distance from the following vehicle.

Passengers are also told that driving is horrible, and there are also many cases where they immediately return to themselves and regret “why did they do such a thing” and go around the same place again to see if an accident had occurred.

If you regret it, don't do it; it doesn't matter to me even if you're incited by the following car
I told myself, but after a while, it made a sudden start again, and I regret it over and over again.

I also talked to my friend, but only the answer “reached the point of youth” came back, and I'm uneasy about driving because it seems that people will get involved and cause an accident at this rate.
(I'm still uneasy because I use a commercial vehicle at work)

We look forward to working with you.

4 Zen Responses

Arrogance healing is going to be done

I read your question

I think there are many people who tend to get nervous when they are driving.
One big accident is rough treatment that makes you think “driving is really scary, I don't want to ride in a car anymore,” but as a matter of fact, there is a possibility that serious injuries or people will be involved, so I can't recommend it

As for human psychology, in psychology, there is a story about why people feel big when riding in a car called car = armor
It is said that the larger the things that surround you, the easier it is for your mind to grow, which means it is easier to feel more anxious in winter, depending on the difference in the amount of clothes you wear between winter and summer.

Therefore, cars wear large armor that is sturdy to some extent, so there are many people who get nervous when they get in a car, even people who are usually goofy
It's even more so when you're driving an Elgrand or something bigger, and I'm sure you'll feel unrivaled unless you meet a truck

However, after all, it's not very good as it is now, so always try to anticipate what will happen if the worst happens when you get in the car

You were a little tired during work and casually ran over a child because you were driving recklessly as usual in a commercial car, and you died due to bad luck.
What will happen to you then, what will happen to you at work, and how will people who know you look at you?
Please imagine it clearly

By the way, it doesn't matter, but my car is a Tanto, but there were times when I only rode a car called the Marauder (Marauder) in my imagination because I thought it was cool in the past.
The reason is that it's sturdy and won't hit or lose, so it won't be moved by plastic bombs or lions
I'm scared, so even if I don't have an accident, I'm always scared of the possibility that someone else will bump into me

I hope you can drive safely and live a fulfilling day so that there are no accidents

I'm also prepared to let go of my car in order to cherish my future life...

My father actually had that kind of personality, and he scrapped many cars.

It was called a running coffin in the streets, but his personality didn't change.

If you say that, I think it's better to stop driving.

If they take a person's life, it's irretrievable.
You will be in a position where the bereaved family will hate you for the rest of your life.
You won't be able to fully enjoy your life after that.

Give up on the car, or else profess that you will let go of the car the next time you make a call at a frightening speed, and let go of the car when you drive recklessly...

I think that kind of courage is also necessary.

I think it's too late to let go of a car after it has taken people's lives.

It's been tough, but please consider it.

If you become a member of society, you need a car.

Which car are you driving now?
If you ride in a car that's so old that it doesn't run the way you want,
That personality may be corrected.

Let's drive with the intention of driving ourselves

The problem is that ❝ there is no sense of fear ❞.
It's a good idea to use fear as a brake.
The car shows all of your personality, personality, feelings you want to avoid, your desire to keep your distance, and the feeling you want to skip it.
However, even if it were you in real life, the car is still an iron catamaran.
More than a shock when you bump into each other or a conflict in a relationship. If Pecchanko dies instantly, the world goes wrong, your family cries a lot, or is about to cause a personal injury accident, your bereaved family will also be pointed at and resented by your partner for the rest of your life.
Driving a car is the quality of your own driving. You yourself are living a wild and reckless life.
You will be shown driving just the way you are.
However, it's not driving, it's just being “cheated” by the car.
Real drivers don't care about the environment or circumstances. There are no mistakes.
There are no wins or losses.
There is no superiority or disadvantage.
I'm also familiar with relationships with people.
The distance between cars is perfect.
There is no waste in handling or accelerator fluffiness.
The timing of the brakes also does not put a burden on passengers.
You shouldn't brake suddenly.
Let's start putting the brakes on.
Maybe you're trying to create a comfortable driving environment in your own way, but there's a better way.
First, open the window.
The wind is coming in. If you skip too much, it's cold.
It's already February now, so it must be cold in the same car.
Once every day. When driving, try driving while feeling the wind in your body, not in your brain.
The experience and body are honest and straightforward.
If you drive with your own head, anything is possible.
Please feel fear with your own body and experience. What stops you from running wild is fear.
Fear is also one of the brakes. Please be able to make proper use of it.