What do you mean now?

Sorry, I made a mistake in how to write it, so please give me another piece of advice.
I've been in a relationship with him for half a year, and now he told me that he really likes me, but I guess that means he hasn't really liked me until now. I was also told 3 months ago using the words “I love you even though it's over now, but I love you.” The relationship was a confession from him, and up until now, he has told me that I like him, I love him...
Once again, I'd like to take it to mean I like it, but how do monks take it...?
I didn't like other people until now, but I think they gradually fell in love with them over the course of six months? Or, I was depressed by another woman, and there were also people who said they came to me because they broke up, and I was a little uneasy...
Thank you for your support

4 Zen Responses

I think that means I thought so again. Don't be overly presumptuous. I don't think I would say such a thing if I had my feelings for another woman.

I don't understand his feelings, but I think you should take it positively.

I'm thinking too much

It doesn't have a deep meaning. Men say, “If it's conveyed, there's no need to say I love you, right?” There are many people who think that. I have a different feeling from women who want to confirm their love every day. It probably means something like “it's changed now (you should understand even if you don't say it), though.”
I'm overthinking that I was lying to another woman. Men don't have such complicated brains. It's fine.
Even if I had a deeper idea, I think it would just be “now (if you say it, it might be annoying if you say it).” That's how simple a man's words are.

Please tell them that they are happy no matter how many times they say it.

You've probably noticed something else good about you.

and
I also fell in love with that goodness,
Maybe I wanted to tell you that.

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