Should I quit smoking
I live in Canada with my husband and son.
This time, I was a little concerned about my husband's marijuana addiction, and I posted it because I wanted to hear your opinions.
For some reason, I lived apart from my husband for 3 years, but I finally started living with my family of 3 the other day.
Originally, I knew that I was a marijuana addict even before my child was born, but I had heard that she had already quit a long time ago.
However, on the day we started living together, “We haven't smoked even once in half a year. They said, “I bought it once in a while because I thought it would be good once in a while,” and it's only been about 1 week, but it seems like they smoke quite a bit every day.
Of course I'd like to quit if possible.
However, marijuana is now legal in Canada, and they insist that there is no addiction like alcoholic tobacco, and marijuana is not dangerous.
My husband's parents are both opponents of marijuana, and he has hidden that he is an addict, and I don't really understand that feeling, but in Canada, marijuana itself feels like tobacco in Japan.
Originally, my husband has a personality that makes it easy to feel stressed, and he is also busy with work, and I know that he is quite stressed and relaxed with marijuana.
So I think the truth is that even though I think it would be better to quit someday, it's hard to quit.
I would be happy if you could think of it as a cigarette with the closest sense in Japan, rather than from the viewpoint that marijuana = cannabis is illegal.
As long as the person himself doesn't quit, it won't change no matter what I or those around me say, so I'm not saying anything now, but should I say something so that the person himself will do his best to quit?
Or can't I change a person, and should I be forgiving and trying to accept him just the way he is?
