About getting a driver's license (please support)

Currently in my 30s. I'm thinking of using childcare leave to get a driver's license, albeit late.

My husband is currently in his 40s, but he got his license in his 30s, and he rent-a-car about once a month takes me around for various things. It is a place where people are encouraged to get a license “because people who can drive together can go to various places.”

I also have a child, and I think it would be somewhat convenient to be able to drive, but recently I've often seen news of tilt driving and accident news, and I've become afraid of driving.
It's around this time today that my stomach hurts even before I got my driver's license, no matter what to do if I get offended or what to do if I get involved in an accident.
Other than the expressway! I don't understand the image of being able to drive..

I also want to have more fun working on getting a driver's license, but I don't really have a good image.

Is it really possible for me to drive when I'm so scared and anxious? I also have a feeling that I want to try driving a little bit. Surprisingly, they might like driving.

How can I enjoy working on things without being misled by dark news etc.?

4 Zen Responses

Don't worry, it'll work out!

Congratulations on having a baby and being on childcare leave... ♥.
I took this opportunity to get a driver's license, go shopping and drive with my husband... it's fun.
The words in the title are Ikkyu-san's words. Something will work out!
Certainly, there are a lot of things to worry about, but... It's almost probably a “takeover struggle.”
Anyway, please do your best while imagining the “fun” of getting a driver's license.
Incidentally, I was 32 years old when I got my driver's license. It was “pretty slow” back then. I failed 2 times at driving school... (laughs). Gassho

What should I do? It doesn't end with

　Hello. I love driving cars too. I've experienced quite a few accidents. It hasn't been 10 years (there are violations).
Now, “what should I do?” I don't understand that anxiety either. But that makes me anxious “because I can't think of an answer.” So, wouldn't it be good to think about “let's do this”?
If you're incited, calm down and hand it over. This is the best. I was also excited when I was a beginner, but “I'll give it to you. It is now possible to “give away brilliantly,” and now I can go back and forth at my own pace.
If you have an accident. Currently, insurance companies provide pretty detailed services (for profit, of course). They seem to act on your behalf from the first exchange, such as settlement negotiations.
When getting insurance, make sure that such fees are also included.
Look up that area (ask your husband too) and ask “what should I do?” I wonder if it would be nice if it could go as far as “I should do it this way.”
“What should I do?” Do you tend to stop thinking?
Well, even with that, there is a possibility that an accident will occur, and it may be incited. It's worse than thinking, “Oh, I'm here, I'm here.”
There is a saying “I'm scared and anxious,” but that in itself is suitable for safe driving. I think people who notice “here...” a lot have fewer accidents after all.
Stay safe!

I recommend it to my wife too.

My wife is a paper driver
I haven't driven in about 20 years since I got married.
but
The number of school events has increased,
As it often overlaps with legal affairs,
It would be much easier if I could drive.

I also got my driver's license 30 years ago,
I was really scared before I went to the driving school.
But when I started going there, I got used to it
My anxiety went away.

Try the challenge
If you think it's really impossible
You should stop it.
Let's take on the challenge without hesitation.

Driving a car is life-threatening, so getting rid of fear is not a good thing. Let's take driving seriously after being afraid. If you do that, I think the possibility of an accident will also decrease. If you're scared or anxious, it might be reassuring to be able to drive safely.

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