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About my boyfriend's sexual preferences

When my boyfriend wasn't around the other day, when I was watching a video distribution site at his house, I noticed that there is a word (Ryona) in the search history that describes works where women scream in pain or are tortured.
I know in my head that it's just two-dimensional fiction, but I can't stop feeling disgusted when I think that such things are being sexually consumed. I'm also disgusted by the narrowness of my heart that I can't turn a blind eye to other people's sexual preferences. Please tell me how to sublimate feelings.

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If you don't like it, you can break up

 Please be aware first that you are not allowed to view his personal information without permission. I think you have hobbies and preferences, but I think it would be nice to decide whether they are good or bad based on your own judgment. When sexual crimes or cruel incidents occur, people with special hobbies and preferences are suspected, and society tends to try to eliminate them, but if you take it from someone who only fits within it, that person has been taken away from their own place of relaxation, so you can't imagine which direction they will head next at all. Such things have also been said. If it fits within you, and if that person's life is solid, let's just keep an eye on the situation.
But if your tastes don't match, then you're human too. Let's break up after telling the truth once and for all. If you feel disgusted, there's nothing you can do about it. I think it was good to know before we got married. Let's make a decision now. Even if you make a mistake, don't force him to change his preferences or eliminate him.

Be careful of people who are “control freaks.”

huh... That's surprising, isn't it? The real intention is that it's scary at the same time.

Was it a preference, or did you search out of interest?
It depends on the amount of searches, so I can't say anything, but if you tell them you've seen it, there's no such embarrassment, and you shouldn't just shut up and peek. They won't necessarily attack you. Please be careful.

Men are called herbivores, but they want to chase and control.
So, I don't even understand what I'm interested in...

People who are in a relationship and have strong control, management, and restraint may suddenly get upset or even have DV.
I can't say anything, but
People who are control freaks are hard to tell apart.
It's up to you to decide.

Safety first

Hello, I'm Shimoshimo Tange, a counselor in the adult 🔞 field.
is that so? (TDT) I wonder if my boyfriend's perverted tastes were revealed by internet history at the end of the year, Ooi. crying
If there is disgust about that, let's break up quickly and cancel it off along with the bell on New Year's Eve. Gone. Let's let our memories with him flow along with the sound of the bell. Gone.
Let's say we haven't seen anything, give a safe reason, and break up. Let's blur ourselves gently. GONE
If you say “pervert, kimo 💦,” it will stimulate him and he may be played as a pervert, so it's probably safer not to say it. We don't know each other, but that's fine.
Oh, and Daihoji's bad relationship memorial amulet is on this hasunoha page, so why not buy one. (*'▽`*)
Please take a look at the reality of sexual crimes in the world. Perverts are real. The concentration of metamorphosis varies from person to person, but it is said that more or less people have both abnormal and S sex, and it is said that there are many perverts in the elite, but it's not like their partner has accumulated perverts. Why don't you take a hundred steps and make an effort to understand that perverted nature? If you don't like it, it's time to break up. ('◉ ◉) 🚬
A long time ago, when I was a student, my parents took me to a ramen shop, and its name is “ramen shop.” There is a perverted comic called “Crying Freeman,” the legendary “erotic and cool” manga that was left behind. Is it safe to say that it is a half-erotic comic, or a perverted manga that surpasses hecha erotic manga. There is a 🔞 scene where the main character “Hinomura YO” of the comic called “Crying Freeman” (which was also animated and made into a movie) strangles a woman while playing, and the grandpa (what kind of situation is it) who was watching the whole act said something like “human perverted sexual preferences are caused by past oppression experiences.” Wow, I'm kind of convinced. When I was in middle school, Bok-chan remembers that the almost erotic comic “Crying Freeman” was too shocking than Fist of the North Star and wasn't even ramen.
It probably means that each person has a mentality and desire to be freed from sexual habits and oppression.
As you understand humans, I think that's what they are, but I want to give up on excessive perverts. If you feel in danger, trust your instincts and say goodbye wisely.