Shouldn't we be greedy for a relationship?

Fumi-sama.
My name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

I remember my friend (female, eldest daughter) when I was a student saying, “Recently, my parents are staring at me while playing the CD of Itsuro Oizumi's' grandson '” (laughs).

Well, recently the marriage age for both men and women has risen, hasn't it? Fumi is now in her 20s, and the reason her parents say, “Come on, get married” may be her parents who have an old-fashioned way of thinking.

No matter what triggered it, Fumi became interested in getting married, and was introduced to her by a friend. But since they're not in a relationship or engaged, isn't it good to meet various men?

Rather, it is said that “there have been almost no relationships with men until now,” so I think we should look at various men in order to cultivate an eye for sight.
Men who get angry when they learn about it may be excessively restrained or jealous even when they start a relationship or get married, so it may be better to keep a little distance at that point.

Please stay alert for marriage hunting (^_^)
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Isn't it OK to get to know a man and call him a friend at first?
I think it's good to have lots of male friends.
If you find the person you're interested in among them
It would be nice if it developed into a relationship.
Please make friends and build immunity for the opposite sex.
Knowing that there are all kinds of men
I think it would be nice to broaden my horizons.

I wonder if a wonderful encounter and love is about to begin ~ ♬

When I was in my 20s, I was worried about the relationships of friends around me, and I became impatient and very envious because I was conscious of getting married. I was recommended a match by my parents, and I even met them, and we had a joint party through the introduction of friends ~ I was looking for various encounters (lol) If you want to fall in love, boys and girls are like that ◎

The only thing I can say is that happiness is not determined by the number of people you know and have been in a relationship. I only have data of the opposite sex, and my ideals have expanded, huh? There are also people like that (^^;

I am me. You can expand your meeting places at your own pace without worrying about your surroundings.
It's okay if there are a lot of people who think it's good. That's because it's not an affair or anything, and it's not disrespectful to the other person (because I haven't made a promise with a specific person). If you take care not to make your partner feel bad, I don't think it's a problem. It would be nice if you could meet someone you really like and cherish while becoming good friends ◎

It's difficult for anyone to decide on just one person.
I want them to fall in love to the point where they worry a lot and become painful ~ (*^_^*)

Your opponent
No matter how good-looking
No matter how tall you are
No matter how loud your voice is
No matter how good the atmosphere is
No matter how good you are at talking
No matter how much inclusiveness you have
No matter how dexterous
No matter how good your personality is
No matter how much money you have
No matter how healthy
No matter how smart you are
Your opponent is your opponent, you are.
Each person is a different person.
Yes, I have to live my life well.
Even though the couple and lover each have two triplets, the greatest strength is that they are not dependent on each other even if they are in a spoiled relationship, and have a firm core of themselves.
Being in a state where you can't rely on your partner and if you maintain a heart without dependency, when the other person does something, you will be thankful for their presence and love them, isn't it?
“Those who don't know enough are put in heaven, but they don't get it right again.”
Many men and women in the world look for many ideals in their partner, but if they have a firm sense of independence whether they are married or not, they can live with independence, and they can live with their own subjectivity. (-_-;) (^o^)

Fumi-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Previously, in a humble answer to the question “I'm not good at having relationships” (http://hasunoha.jp/questions/246), “... relationships have good relationships, of course, there are also bad relationships. While making a good assessment of that, I think that in order to quickly break off bad relationships and make arrangements so that good relationships can be brought in as much as possible, along with maintaining a balanced relationship without being caught up in relationships with people, not being bogged down, and not bothered, it may also be necessary to cultivate a sense of concern and compassion for the other person as much as possible. I have stated “...”

After all, if a “relationship” has a good relationship, of course, there are also bad relationships.

If there is a slight failure or stumbling block, it is enough not to repeat the same mistakes as remorse, but since the problem may not be enough, I believe that careful determination of “relationships” is also essential.

As is the case with love, for example, in my humble life, I had quite a bitter, painful, and difficult experience in a “relationship” when I was enthusiastic about welfare activities and volunteer activities...

No matter what, humans sometimes make major mistakes when their emotions and feelings become stronger and they lose their calm judgment and rationality.

Therefore, it is also important to take care of people who are close to you and calmly analyze yourself as much as possible, and people who give you advice and attention. It doesn't matter if they are close and reliable people, for example, parents or friends, so I think it's a good idea to make someone you can talk to. Of course, I know it's okay to ask Hasunoha for advice, but it's better to be close to someone who knows you as well as possible.

Indeed, if you are too greedy, it is possible that you will fail, so I hope you can be careful about that. Of course, love sometimes requires “boldness,” but I want to try to keep everything as balanced as possible.

I pray for Fumi's happiness.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho