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I want to abandon greed and expectations

I don't like continuing to live a life swayed by greed and expectations.
I want to throw it away and become a person who doesn't want anything and doesn't expect anything.
However, greed springs up without permission, and it is impossible not to have expectations or be intentional.
How can we become a person who has abandoned greed and expectations?

5 Zen Responses

I think everything is painful and impermanent

Living things move their mind and body in response to stimuli coming in from their eyes, ears, nose, body, and mind.
Actions and thoughts have stimuli that cause them.
Stimulus comes in from inside and outside the body. Thoughts created by one's own brain are also one of the stimuli.
Stimulation is the cause of the urge to act or think. Life is a continuous process of stimulation → impulse → mental and physical movement.
example. When I hear a sound, I want to determine what sound it is, and my heart moves, like “it's a bird's voice.”
The problem is that we value, like, and dislike stimuli with our values and obsessions.
The stimulus that comes in is “suffering,” which creates the impulse (outrage) of “I can't help but do it.” That “suffering” is an “impermanence” that changes moment by moment.
Any stimulus is the same in that it is painful and impermanent.
Pleasant stimulation is also a pain that creates impulse.
(The urge to go away without doing anything like sexual desire.)
Whether it's an uncomfortable stimulus or a normal stimulus, everyone is suffering and impermanent.
When greed is strong, they may be attaching too much value to specific stimuli. In terms of suffering and impermanence, there is not much difference; they are equal. If you discriminate against it, your greed will become stronger.

impossible. Be more honest with your heart.

> I don't like continuing to live my life with desires and expectations.

But is that true?
It's my selfish guess,
Since various other desires (even when the desire to sleep and appetite are satisfied) are not easily satisfied, and even if you expect something, it doesn't turn out the way you want, so you probably don't like continuing your life?
※I'm sorry if it's different.

> How can we become a person who has abandoned greed and expectations?

Kh abandoned greed and expectations
What kind of person do you want to be “concretely”?

And in order to become that kind of person,
Is it necessary to let go of greed and expectations?

Please be honest with yourself.

Greed is obsession, and abandoning it means understanding

After all, it's very difficult even if you want to throw it away

I am also a mass of greed
There are times when people say in the streets that they don't have desires even though they're shabby lol lol, but if they can throw it away, they've thrown it away a long time ago
My greed is called selfishness, but it's very difficult for me to let go of what I am

If I think I'm lacking something, I want it; even if I get it, I still want something different; people's greed just keeps springing up earnestly, just like Naruto's maelstrom

It means that while suppressing it with one's own rationality to some extent, even if it's impossible now, it's in the next life, and if that's impossible, it's still beyond that, so let's get rid of it

Instead of losing your greed, why don't you think about it so you don't get swallowed up
Even if you have greed, they won't be swallowed up

As long as we are alive, greed and expectations will spring up.

Kh
I was made aware of the emptiness of a life swayed by greed and expectations.
Next up
Why don't you challenge yourself to see if you can control those desires and expectations?

You can never let go of your own desires and expectations,
You can look at it objectively.

Becky (should) refrain from making negative comments to Amari either.

First, don't have the desire or expectation to “become a person who has abandoned greed and expectations.” (._.)
Nice to meet you. My name is Kataskashi Tange and I always provide disappointing answers.
Don't expect a nice answer from me. lol let's start from there.
When there are expectations, a “sense of loss” occurs when reality is not.
So it's better not to have expectations. To do that, I just need to get rid of my rules.
After putting in money with a batting machine or whack-a-mole, try staying without doing anything at all.
“Oh, that's a waste”
It's a good ascetic practice that makes you notice the occurrence of expectations and impulses within yourself to think “I want to do it” and “I should do this.”
The ball you should hit there, and the mole you should hit is “that heart” that thinks “I want to” and “I should do it.”
Life is easier if you can stare at “it” and remove that entertainment.
An enlightened master ※ taught me that “empty swing is also Buddhism.”
It's OK to leave it empty. That is the truth that it's empty.
There's no human harm there.
The evaluation of profit and loss, good and bad is an afterword of human sama. I always go straight before applying the sauce of human thoughts.
For example, Mr. Kiyohara was caught. It was a shock for the person himself and the world. It's a lifetime out.
However, that emptiness is also true. His life is still going on.
Ichiro also said in his book, “You don't know if it's a failure until you've overcome it.”
If there are no expectations, there are no evaluations.
This leads to the Zen enlightenment of “look at things before they were evaluated.”
The other day, I forgot to put half price clams in the refrigerator and made miso soup the next morning, and it became the biggest pigoro in the history of my life.
While washing underpants, “I don't know if this is a failure until after washing” (complete out)
Don't lose your expectations and desires.
It's good to know [what makes you suffer is your own thoughts].
There are people who are laughable, even if it's disappointing. “Aahaha! this boy is super disappointing ♡ poop”
Even if you're disappointed or betrayed, it's important not to let the bad evaluation immediately after that run wild.
That's how you don't hurt yourself or your partner.
We have made too many mistakes, both ourselves and others.
It's “Becky” who refrains from giving “bad” evaluations to “Amari.”
That's a hit that keeps the original heart clean.
I would like to look forward to Kiyohara's sincere activities in the future and “Shukujiri Sensei's appearance” a few years from now.
Oh, I was talking about not expecting it.