People have a “self that sees” and a “self that can be seen.”
When you die, the person you see yourself (eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind) will be separated. Just like water disperses as water vapor.
Meanwhile, the influence of the seen self (color, voice, flavor, touch) remains. Even if your parents die, make sure your parents' words stay in your heart.
Immortality says, “In the first place, I have no self anywhere: eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body, mind, color, voice, scent, taste, touch, or law. I'm just under the illusion that something that isn't me is temporarily gathered and that it's me. So in the first place, there's no such thing as being born or being destroyed. You are not in the world; you are originally the world itself. Water vapor, water, mountains, rivers, plants, and trees are all in this world, right? You are with us. That's why the changing world changes, but I continue to exist as an unwavering world and as my big self. There's nothing to worry about.” That's it.
The fact that water becomes steam
Speaking of change, it can be said that it will change.
If I say it won't change, I can say it won't change.
Being “free” in between these differences is what Buddhist “peace of mind” (anjin) is. It doesn't matter what answer is definitive.
In fact, when there is a Buddha, they say “Buddha is the universe itself,” and at other times, they also say “I dare to live as a person (myself) in order to save sentient beings.” It's free, isn't it? Because they are selfless, they are free.