What is the best friend

I don't have many friends, but I do have a few dear ones. They've been good friends for years, and we still play from time to time.
However, there are times when I suddenly think about it. I'm an important friend for me, but for them, I'm probably just one of my friends. You probably don't consider them your best friend. It makes me think.
Of course, they're very important friends, and they're also close friends where we can talk about anything. We may also consult with each other.
However, when I was watching Twitter and Instagram, etc., they played with other friends and said, “Best friend!” When I see them posting and looking happy, I sometimes think that it would be annoying for me to get involved with them... I think I'm the only one who thinks I'm my best friend.
Of course, I am very grateful for what my friends have done for me until now, and I think they are irreplaceable. I would also like to help them as soon as something happens to them.
I think the reason I think like this is because I have a dependable personality, like a dependent constitution.
We also know that relationships between friends change due to changes in the environment, etc. Of course, my number of friends has increased, albeit slightly.
However, for me, they are one of the few important friends I've been in a relationship with for many years, so there are things that make me feel extra difficult.

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It's important to acknowledge each other

I read it.
A friend is someone you share your life with for a long time, so you may have a deeper relationship in your long life from now on, and there are also people you will be in a relationship with for a long time.
Even if we think we're on the best terms right now, our relationship with each other can change after a long relationship.
Therefore, it is more important to respect and understand the other person's feelings while being in a natural relationship rather than feelings such as who has to be number one.
We are all born and raised differently, and we can have different values, sense of life, and outlook on life. It is important to get to know and acknowledge it while being in a relationship.

You and I are both respected individuals. It's by no means a monopoly or monopoly.

I sincerely pray that you will be able to grow well together while respecting and understanding each other in your wonderful encounters from now on.

I don't have any friends I can call the best

My few friendships are all made up of interests.
My interest is that I enjoy spending time with those people.

I value my time so much that I think everyone I spend time with is a close friend.

That's not the case when it comes to simply saying that it's an irreplaceable relationship.
You can spend a decent time without friends.

Naturally, there is a temperature difference depending on how each person spends their time (life), so if those values are the same, they may be called best friends.

Incidentally, it is impossible for humans to truly understand each other, so I think it would be easy to create a friendship relationship on the premise that operation is not guaranteed accurately like computer programming.

I only have one best friend

I only have one best friend. They are always in a relationship where they can say anything, and sometimes they say tough things or things that are difficult to say. Sometimes they fight again. Even so, they trust each other and have unique best friends that they can keep up with. When it comes to not having any other friends, that's not the case. We live in warm relationships. I have many friends who do their best to buy each other once a year, but even so, if they think of themselves as friends, that's fine. Don't worry too much about what the other person thinks.

If you think of yourself as your best friend, that's enough.

It's just that there are people who think so
Isn't it amazing?
Opponents are the same
I wonder if they think of themselves as their best friend
It's next after two.

If my feelings were bigger
It's certainly a bit lonely.
It would be ideal if our feelings for each other are on the same level
But rather than being liked
I think it's more important to fall in love with it.

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