Do bad things only happen in unlucky years?

Disasters continue, and it's really painful every day with constant worries. We hope that your family's health will improve and that all issues will be resolved.

There was a saying, there was no luck in unlucky years... but as far as I can read your question, my husband had hernias and urinary stones, my father-in-law was in a state of mind where I had to say disgust, my child was injured, and Iroha is also like a lucky owner who escaped an accident due to a crisis... Both that and this are probably thanks to exorcism (maybe just a coincidence).

Aside from the origin and rationale of unlucky years, there's nothing better than being careful about everything and spending every day. Whether it's an unlucky year or not. Is this some kind of test? What I thought was a wonderful shift in thinking. It's probably natural to just be depressed.

What is probably the most painful event for Iroha-san? If you imagine that, and it hasn't come right now, can't you even think that “an unlucky year equals the worst year”?

These are hard days. Nevertheless, please spend every day believing in the beating of that heart that is alive now.

Iroha sama. My name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

It happened when dangerous things and painful things overlapped, and far from being comforted by their husband, they were blamed by their father-in-law, and I think they felt even more painful. The six months since June have been really difficult. At least I'd like to say, “Thank you for your hard work, you've been doing your best during this difficult time.”

It's such an unlucky year, but the bad things are big and may be hard to see, but I think there were good things too. Also, bad things happen on Taian Day, and there are also cases where good things happen for Butsumetsu.

In other words, there are good things and bad things about being alive. However, I think humans are creatures that want to blame themselves for good things and others for bad things.

My father-in-law is like that too. I think my husband's life before that was still longer than when he was with Iroha-san, but he put nutritional management and physical condition management during that period on the shelf and blames Iroha, who became the manager for the past few years.

What about your husband? You might blame them, “I'm tired from work, I'm not feeling well, and on top of that, it doesn't even make me worry about accidents.” However, getting tired from work and feeling unwell are the husband's own problems. It's not something that should be added to Iroha-san.

How are your kids? It seems like she got the same injury twice, do you blame your mom? Or will you say “I'm sorry for bothering your mom”?

It may be painful, but I don't think there's anything better than taking it on. But I want to take some time off my burdens. In such a case, please contact hasunoha again.

　I remember Hitoshi Saito saying, “An unlucky year is a year of leading roles, a year of leaps and bounds.” It's enough to say don't worry about unlucky years in one word, but that's not the case either. I've lined up bad things over the past year, but think about whether there were any good things. For instance,
① I had my birthday celebrated. The whole family celebrated their birthday. (YES NO)
② We celebrated our wedding anniversary. (YES NO)
③ I went out with my family during summer vacation and stayed. (YES NO)
④ I made all three meals and had them. (YES NO)
⑤ The whole family ate at least once. (Yes no) There are many others...
Create your own happiness questionnaire.
On the other hand, let's also create an unlucky year questionnaire.
Which one is more common? If there are a lot of unlucky people, they say, “Huh, that's great. An unlucky year has come!” Rejoice as if your wish came true. When there is a lot of happiness, “It's an unlucky year. Why are you skipping. I'm worried.” Let's worry about unlucky years. (There is a story in “Japan Eitai Kura,” where merchants who worshiped the god of poverty and honored them by making offerings received the blessings of the god of poverty, and made the store prosperous.)
For the time being, when an unlucky year ends, does happiness only come, and were there really only good things until the unlucky year?
From here on, real problems
① Let's leave the accident to the insurance company, police, and car dealer. I haven't had an unlucky year this year either, but I had a contact accident. I thought it was good to have insurance just in case. I leave everything up to others.
② My husband's hernia and ureteral calculi are probably caused by self-management issues and work stress. My father-in-law's slander is the same as the daughter-in-law problem, and I want to talk about the wife's bad points. It's the same everywhere.
③ Children's injuries are children, so above all else, stay healthy. I often had sprains when I was a kid, and falling and getting injured was commonplace. Be resistant to injury.
④ Did an unlucky year drive a car with rough driving? I've also been hit and run, but I was told that it would be difficult to catch them even if I lost my car number and told the police. Since then, I've been careful and have made a habit of looking at car numbers. Iroha-san, please do the same. Let's do a campaign to eradicate rough driving.
It's just four, and I think this year is because of this unlucky year. Were there fewer than four happiness levels?

The unlucky years (full age) for women are 18 and 36 years old for medium luck, and 31, 32, and 33 years old for great fortune.
Other unlucky years are 0, 3, 5, 6, 9, 12, 14, 15, 21, 23, 27, 30, 39, 45, 50, 51, 54, 57, 59, 60, 63, 66, 69, 72, 75, 77, 78, 81, 84, 86, 87, 90.

About half of your life will be an unlucky year.
The point is that “happiness and misfortune in life are plus or minus zero.”

Especially when you look at Middle Evil and Great Evil, it's a milestone in my life.
It's not that misfortune continues because it's an unlucky year,
Since there is a possibility that something big will happen around the age that is a milestone in life,
I think they're calling it an unlucky year to call it a cautionary year.

I think it's an unlucky year, so I just feel that unhappiness is extra big,
If you think about it calmly, I think the other monks are right.

Let's test it out for a bit.
Please imagine one of the numbers 1 to 10 of your choice in your head.
Actually, this is a hospital room number.
The number you chose is the hospital room number.
Room 1 may be the first to be picked up
Room 2 may never come back
Room 3 suffered a lot
Room 4 is going to die
Room 5 is over
Room 6 is a bad room
Room 7 is suffering so much
Maybe room 8 is no good for yappa
Room 9 suffered
Maybe room 10 is finally useless

... and, in fact, this means that people who think things negatively, negatively (^o^) attach a bad meaning to anything and think badly.

contrary
Live the longest,
It has 2 pieces,
3 psycho
4 will get better
5. No Gokuro
6. Disease-free health
7 long lives
8 happy
... it can also mean the opposite.
The point is, I'm just a state where I am attracting seeds of suffering by linking things to some kind of unhappy element.
The bottom line is that I am unhappy because I feel unhappy in my head.
Since the spotlight in my head is sensitive only to misfortune, the misfortune sensor and misfortune search work too much and I'm sensitive to minor misfortunes.
Paying and praying has the meaning of “I know that, but I can't do it.”
Zen Buddhism teaches us to discard small things and determine the root of things due to this kind of human meaning. If 4 and 9 are bad, what will happen to Shikoku and Kyushu? (^▽^)
Why don't you use it as an opportunity to overcome restrictions due to human thoughts in order for you to become a more spiritually rich person without blaming anything on unlucky years?

Iroha-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

“Unlucky year”... I think everyone is happy and sad by looking at the calendar, doing fortune telling, or drawing a sacred tag.

My humble opinion is that calendars and fortune-telling are a kind of statistical way of looking at things.

Basically, in Buddhism, fortune-telling can cause loss and suffering, and is treated as prohibited, but in my humble opinion, I know that it is necessary, for example, in terms of calling attention, seeking prudence and humility, exhorting greed, greed, and arrogance, and recommending sincerity, effort, and coordination.

Actually, if you look at the calendar I have right now, “However, ○○○” is written on this year's lucky month for the six platinum stars of my humble life.

In Buddhism, I believe that the cause of bad things that cause us to fail or regret is an act based on “ignorance” (fundamental ignorance), which is the source of suffering.

Therefore, they are asked to do good deeds in order to deal with anxiety and ignorance, and this is almost similar to what is listed above. Therefore, I'm wondering if there is one benefit to use as a reference.

However, some of them only incite fear and anxiety, so you really need to be careful.

We must not be too controlled or too bound by calendars and fortune-telling, but I think it is important not to completely deny calendars and fortune-telling, but to have fun and make use of them in everyday life as a reference.

Previously, the question was “About power stones and fortune.” As I mentioned in (http://hasunoha.jp/questions/236), various results of one's own life occur due to one's own actions. It is only through good deeds that good behavior can we hope for good results. It's “good cause good cause and effect.” In the days to come, for example, I would recommend it even if you work hard and make a conscious effort to work hard on the Juzen Deeds (immortal, fugitive, unscrupulous words, unscrupulous words, unscrupulous words, unscrupulous words).

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho