Adults don't understand

An invitation from the opposite sex is nice.
As a monk, I don't know what to say, but I don't usually invite people I don't like on trips. I think you're interested in Warabimochi-san.
Even so, Warabimochi is a minor, and even if it's a trip without lodging, I don't know what will happen with two men (nice people, but dangerous lol). If possible, I think it would be safe to have another female friend go with you.
I hope it will be a fun trip.

Hello. It conveys the feeling of being so excited,
What are your feelings? I don't understand.

Do you want to be her, do you just want to have fun, or do you want a “split” male-female relationship...
My guess is that you haven't fully grasped it yourself, and you probably don't have words that are perfect for your current feelings.
I don't think wooing someone while drunk is very serious. At least in the case where I'm older. There must have been nuances in saying “I want to meet you soon,” but what about whether they were spoiled or the production was aggressive?
However, after all, I feel that my own thoughts aren't written, and I'm worried about that. There are unreasonable and frustrating things in the world, but I want them to live a life that is as satisfying as possible.

One question. Is “being wooed” different from “confession”?

If you read the full text, you can see that Warabimochi-san sees it as a different thing, but from that senior's point of view, I thought that they tried wooing them at that time, or that there is a possibility that they thought it was synonymous with “confession” when they invited them on a day trip.

Maybe there are clear words like “go out with me” on the way home from that trip. Just thinking about it makes it fun.

If there's one thing I need to be careful about, it's that a 24-year-old isn't an adult yet.

I still don't understand people's heartache, etc., and the possibility that Warabimochi-san will get hurt as a result may not be zero.

But even if that happens, you should make use of that experience and grow.
I think that experience is what Warabimochi refers to as a “romantic experience.”

I hope you have a good trip.

Even if it's a day trip, I don't think I should go on a trip with that person at the moment.

There are several types of people who invite minors. One is when you seriously fall in love with it and there's nothing you can do about it. One is when you're underage (not “with”) and trying to play. One is when you're not thinking about anything.

In the first case, they must care, so they don't get drunk and try to persuade them. You won't overdo it.

In the second case, they're just trying to satisfy their own desires regardless of the means, so they may get drunk and persuade them, and they can also be aggressive. Even if something goes wrong, the other party is a minor (child), so if you calculate that you can abide by yourself or that you can do whatever you want, you won't be able to get rid of it. There are cases where responsibility can be taken, but there are many cases where it is half-hearted. Of course, minors are targets that society as a whole should do their utmost to protect them, so this is unreasonable. There is no choice but for a calm adult to point out mistakes to that adult. There are also cases where you don't understand it even if it's pointed out.

In the third case, calculations have not been made as much as in the second case, so no matter what happens, anything will happen, and it is rare for the other party to take responsibility no matter what happens. The most dangerous.

(Yeah, I think there are actually a lot more...)

People who have never been in a relationship with the opposite sex are easily fooled by experienced veterans regardless of age or gender. It's impossible to be aware.

There is also a way to gain experience without being fooled. It's about living calmly while asking yourself questions about what you want to do and how you want to be. In the process, they start dating people who are reasonable. Counseling with parents is also particularly effective.

It's not too late now, so try listening to the old song “Hattori” by Unicorn and the older song “S.O.S.” by Pink Lady, and reading “Correct Health and Physical Education” by Miura Jun. I especially recommend “... Health and Physical Education.” “Originally, boys were designed to be controlled by gold balls.” It says something very important, etc. Of course, monks are also controlled.

As I said, what Mochi thinks is the most important thing. Please think carefully.