There was a past where she worked in the sex industry

Nice to meet you, hello.

We met for the first time, went on a few dates, and someday... it's OK to marry this person! Thinking, deciding to get married, taking care of each other, supporting, cooperating, and trusting each other through various difficulties, I think love and marriage...

While we're in a relationship, Takuma wants to get married to her! I thought, she also likes Takuma, so they're in a relationship.

The person who can understand and trust her the most is Takuma-san. Why don't you change your perspective by thinking about how we can walk together from the past and the future?

The past cannot be erased with an eraser. I think people have various pasts. If you really love her and are prepared to protect her, I want her to accept everything and accept it. And where is the proposal? I want to have this kind of marriage! Why don't you think about things like that are a way to walk with her?

Why don't you let go of that obsession with the past?

Don't forget that she believes in Takuma-san and walks with her.

Look forward and I hope the life you walk with your hopeful girlfriend will be a bright and shining future just like you.

Gassho

Loving is mercy in Buddhism.
Mercy is wishing for the other person's happiness, thinking that the other person's joy is your own joy, and getting rid of the other person's suffering and sorrow by thinking it's your own suffering or sorrow.
A married couple is about having mercy on each other and living together.
Close your eyes to your partner's bad points and praise them for their good points.
Treat them with a smile and kind words.
Sometimes there are exceptions, but that's basically the relationship.
So, if you've decided to love her, in extreme terms, I'll accept her even if there were actual acts in the past, and it was financially painful if you didn't go that far, and that was the best I could do at that time, and I'll comfort her that you don't have to do that anymore; I think that's the kind of love an adult man should have.
Please work together to cultivate a sense of mercy for each other from now on.

　I think it's hard to be snooped on what happened before we started dating. How would you feel if you were snooped on even if you didn't have anything?
Everyone has their own circumstances. Please keep that in mind. If you can't forget it on top of that, you should keep it in mind. So try to find her good points and treat her with gratitude and kindness.
If you don't take a day off, your worries will be controlled by the evil of being delusional. Please acquire the power to forgive others. When you forgive others, your body and mind feel lighter.

Hello, Takuma-san.

She has experience with sex, doesn't she? There are also people who have an indescribable past. If you're living a serious life, you've overcome that past and have the person you are now. Therefore, it is also the person's own denial that is insistent on it. What matters is whether or not you can love your girlfriend now. Sex is also an important job. Many men grew up watching adult videos and nude photos. Of course, there are also men who have used manners. It's a strange story to despise women in the sex industry while using it myself. It can be said that bugs are too good.
Of course, since you can get a lot of money from sex, there are risks, so it's not a job I can recommend. If the marital relationship deteriorates, the hurdles for having an affair may be low. In order to create such a relationship with her, you must do your best so that you can accept her firmly and that you are an attractive man or husband. If you seem to doubt her, what was your first experience and not just your sex experience? With how many boyfriends? I can see that she is even obsessed with what she doesn't want to say. If that's the case, I think it's better not to marry her in the first place.
Even if you've ever looked at your phone, it can be difficult to build trust with her. Even lovers and married couples have private lives. The act of checking a cell phone is the last action that must be done on the assumption that we will break up.

Please decide on a relationship by taking a good look at your own abilities to see if you can accept her until the past and go out with her. If you want to marry her, expand your potential as a man until and after marriage. That's your role for her. It's not her problem. Gassho