It's a very difficult... and at the same time very important question. Please don't give an easy answer, and if this is really your challenge, please keep asking and checking for yourself.
No one knows what happened after death. Therefore, in response to the question of whether or not we can meet, the answer “we can meet” and the answer “we can't meet” is nothing but uncertain in a sense.
If you think of this question as Buddhism, it comes down to how it is explained in sutras.
It is true that there are many types of Pure Land. However, it is not “the Pure Land = the world after death,” but “the Pure Land = the world of enlightenment of the Buddha.”
The pure land is a world where the Buddha thought about what kind of world he would like to open up if he were to awaken to the truth during the ascetic stage, and that ascetic practice was accomplished.
Among them, if you read the sutras in Amida Nyorai's Pure Land of Paradise, people who say Namu Amida Buddha and Nembutsu are born there after death. It is described as a world where no one who prays nenbutsu in the hope of being born there is excluded.
When we hear that, we inevitably imagine that there is such an ideal world after death. Certainly, even in sutras, the Pure Land is described as a glittering, painless world.
However, in the first place, since the Pure Land is the Buddha's sacred world, it is a world that transcends such binary opposites such as presence or absence, self, and others, and it is a world beyond what we can see, hear, think, or imagine in our senses.
We are caught up in what we see, what we hear, and what we think, separate (evaluate them separately), and then get lost, and the world of the Buddha is beyond that.
However, that doesn't mean we can even hope to be born there, so it is described as a glittering world, for example, so that we can understand it, and that we wish to be born there.
This kind of expression is called “convenient (reading: hoben meaning: a way to get closer to the truth).”
This expediency depicts rich stories about the afterlife. Those of us who are alive want to be born there and meet everyone again.
But I think our reality is that there are people we don't want to meet. Even if I were born in the Pure Land just the way I am, it won't be any different from this Shaba world.
What is showing me who I am now is also the Pure Land.