hasunoha

About sutras and kaimyo

I would like to ask you about funerals, sutras, and the commandments.

I'm not religious myself.

I don't want a funeral, sutras, or kana after death. That's it.

I'm sorry for saying this to the monk...

There is no funeral, no direct burial (only cremation), no ossuary, and I would like to have all of the remains scattered (or burnt cremated), but in the case of Buddhism (general funeral, burial in a tomb) from generation to generation, is it illegal for me to be the only one to leave?

Can you see your relatives with white eyes?

There are also financial issues, so I want to keep it as cheap as possible.

Do we need sutras and commandments?

Thank you for your answers.

5 Zen Responses

why?

“I don't want a funeral, sutras, or kana after death. That's it.”
do whatever you want.

BTW,
“Is it illegal for me to be the only one left out?”
“Can you see your relatives with white eyes?”
“Do we need sutras and precepts?”

Why is that bothering you?
Aren't you religious?

If you're uneasy about something, why don't you try studying Buddhism, for example?

Buddhism teaches to reduce worries and suffering

Buddhism is a teaching that reduces the worries and suffering of living people.
Kaima is originally a Buddhist name for people to become official Buddhists when they are alive.
I think that's why people who died without having a chance to receive the kyo name during their lifetime were performed on the deceased with the feeling that the person left behind was at least mourning.
Originally, I would like you to learn Buddhism while you are alive and know techniques to control and eliminate the causes of inner worries and suffering.
You don't need to be obsessed with rituals and conventions.

What kind of funeral would you like to have?

 I understand how you feel.
Now please answer my question with the intention of writing it in the ending note.
① What kind of funeral would you like to have?
② Your body is cremated, buried, etc.
③ How do you bury your body?
④ What happens to the soul of an unreligious person when they die? Incidentally, heaven is Christianity, the Pure Land of Paradise is Buddhism,
⑤ What happens to your body after you die? Do graves exist? What is the shape of the grave?
I'll leave that above for now. Irreligion allows you to freely decide on the form, but there are also many regulations. If you have no religion, you can't do Christmas, Halloween, festivals, etc. What do you base your life on?
Since no religion can be anything, there are many regulations. Indeed, “freedom is an inconvenience.”

Good morning.

I have a kind feeling that I don't want to cause trouble to anyone, and I'm guessing it's a problem and conflict because I know that there is a funeral image that I want, but I'm not alone in managing the funeral.

It is necessary to have someone carry the dead body to the crematorium, and there is no way to leave the bones in the burning area.
If you want to break up a relationship during your lifetime, it's a good idea to ask the welfare section at the city hall where people with no relatives are buried.

There are also common names such as ossuary, and there are also sutras that are not monks, but there are reasons and backgrounds for religious manners and the laws and rules of the world, so I think it's okay to take time to create a form you are satisfied with.

I can't clean up after myself.

“After I die
I want it to be like this”
I can leave hope
the people who do it are relatives
Nor is it necessarily going to do what you want.
If you think you need relatives
There will also be a funeral and an ossuary.

Nao
Suicide is the most annoying cause of death for relatives.
If you can
After I saw off my grandparents
Let's wait for our own death.