Memorial service for Mizuko who had a miscarriage 6 years ago
6 years ago, I had an abortion during a reprimand.
There was Mizuko Jizo at the temple where my grandparents' graves are located, so my husband and wife went to pray when they were feeling well. I didn't have a monk perform a memorial service.
I went to pick up something I lost in the sky, so come back, I'll be waiting for you. thank you. I offered sweets with that feeling.
Then, I was able to get pregnant again in the summer of the same year, and my daughter was born safely the following year, and I will be 5 years old this year. After that, she also gave birth to her second daughter and became a mother of 2 sisters.
However, the environment completely changed when the two of them were raising children, and there was also a shocking incident at home, and I had no room for my mind due to stress, and at some point I didn't even remember Mizuko... Until the second one was born, I had many opportunities to pray at my grandparents' graves, and each time I prayed at Mizuko Jizo, and even talked to my older daughter...
I wanted to decorate my daughter's name book again for the previous Hinamatsuri, so after searching for kanji fonts etc. on my PC, I suddenly thought about whether Mizuko-chan wanted a name too...
I've been thinking about names, but the gender is unknown, and I feel like I've heard somewhere that I shouldn't name them... I'm starting to get worried and can't sleep.
Isn't it OK to give it a name?? Also, what is important in raising a water child??