There is a public opinion that monks shouldn't do flashy things, so I don't feel comfortable riding a foreign car or going to a local high-end restaurant. It was about 10 years ago, and there was a time when I was scolded for riding a VW Golf.
What is decisively different from other self-employed people is that there are no complete holidays. As a reason for the existence of a temple, it is hoped that someone will be there at any time, so you cannot stay away from the temple. There are forwarding calls now, so I think it's freer than before...
However, since my family is the only one at the temple, it is difficult to have an overnight family trip without asking someone (my real mother) to stay home.
Also, even if you have made some plans in advance, if a funeral is ready, of course, we will prioritize that. There were times when that made children feel lonely.
If school events are decided first, no memorial service promises will be made on that day. However, at this time of year, I didn't know the school schedule for the new school year, and memorial service promises tend to be decided first, so there were times when I couldn't go to field days or class visits for the first semester.