This is the person I talked to about marriage before

“I want to apologize to my father for his concerns and express my gratitude for listening to his advice, so I want to write a letter.”
I hope you enjoy it.
There is no need to despise anything, such as “I want to convey my own words is an ugly desire to know myself even a little bit.”
Please express your heart.
I'm glad for that.

Things will improve when he loses you and becomes ill.
In other words, how he changes when he loses you. Give up or reburn and become a man.
If you choose to be tied to your home, that much love.
In this day and age, marriage is probably something you should do with someone you like, originally.
First of all, the old-fashioned idea of that family, the strength of a sense of home like in the feudal era, is extremely discriminatory, and children still do not recognize the dignity of their only son, they are controlled by children, and they are domesticated, and they are unable to think about my child's true happiness. I haven't been able to leave my children.
Both parents and son are pitiful.
Also, he is really rude and doesn't want to be with you even if he abandons his house, but that's about it at the moment. I don't care about my parents, so I'm a mother for the rest of my life.
_ (._.) _I'm so sorry. I dare say bad things because I want you to have the heart to “give up” first.
Why don't you wait half a year?
Why not cut ties completely and wait for him to change. There is a time limit only for LIMI.
If they really like you, they'll do something to persuade your parents. You really can argue that you too.
If he can't do that, he'll be completely brainwashed by the house and won't be able to get out. That is his power.
I wonder if it will protect you for the rest of your life. (Because I prioritize my home)
They should be strictly banished so that they don't have an affair or convenient relationship this time around.
It's strange that your dignity isn't recognized.
huh? me? Well, there were mountains and valleys _ ( . _ . ) _

　Mr. LIMI. I should be grateful to my boyfriend for telling me this far. Eagles can't make it this far. Even so, it may be disappointing for you that you didn't get understanding from your parents, especially your mother, but let's make it clear now. “Stranger Than Novels in the World” I recommend searching for the next person, even if you think about it from your age. Good friends also often work negatively when it comes to getting along with men, so let's stop it. Let's break ties with him perfectly.
It's as if my opinions have never been accepted. Every time I did that, I thought the world was unreasonable. But there were times when I thought it would pay off. Changing the values of the world cannot be changed by one person. In the future, if your friends, neighbors, relatives, etc. are worried about this kind of thing, let's call out to them even if you don't help them. And let's talk about our own experiences. I'm sure it will give you courage. I pray that someday there will be no Romeo and Juliet-like people whose lovers are torn apart by this kind of thing.
Send the letter with a feeling of gratitude for him and for meeting someone with such values. Never be disgusting, do it with all your heart.
　

Dear LIMI, I'm a hasunoha beginner, thank you.
I also looked at past questions. I really understand the painful decisions made over the past few months.
Even around me, in the past, there were cases where men and women loved and respected each other, but when it came to marriage, various relationships and feelings between relatives were entangled, and things didn't go well.
There was also elopement, which is rare in modern times.
In the worst cases, there were multiple suicide deaths.
I admire Mr. LIMI's idea of holding back on his feelings of love for him and facing each other as people who respect each other.
One day, another wonderful partner will appear in front of LIMI, your mother and other relatives will be blessed, and above all, you will be able to have a marriage that will be sent with a smile to the guy you are about to break up with.
You can guess from the text that LIMI is such an attractive person.
As a matter of priority, I think it would be a great thing to send a letter of thanks to his father. Wouldn't it be nice if it was written with gratitude for meeting him without being weird? It would be even better if you add a little bit of gratitude to the mother who gave birth to this wonderful man into this world.
I sincerely hope that in the future, LIMI and he will each have separate happy families, and the day will come when the whole family, including each other's children, can have relationships with each other.

Oh, be sure to have a wedding at a temple, please get married in front of the Buddha (laughs)

Mr. LIMI

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

It's been six months since my last question... was that so... I wonder if you've already sent your first and last letter to his father...

I sincerely apologize for LIMI's humble, gentle, and humble consideration, and for her feelings of incompleteness and sadness.

Well... if it's a relationship that has already ended, please discard the following humble content.

Mr. LIMI... there are times when it's important for us to push things forward, even if it's aggressive.

Although it was a private matter, I had a romantic marriage with my humble wife, and for a while after we started dating, I myself considered my position as a monk, the special environment of a temple, and in particular persuasion to my parents, etc., and thought about various things like a soft landing while spending as much time as possible towards marriage. However, my wife approached me fiercely when my attitude, which seemed to be inexhaustible, was vague, indecisive and attempted to procrastinate, and when she finally boiled down her business and made various decisions.

Also, I quickly realized that, in order to live separately, I immediately moved in search of a nearby apartment, and the betrothal date was quickly decided, the marriage date was quickly decided, and of course even after that (of course now...), but now I have children, and I have already returned to my house in the temple, and somehow I'm in a thankful situation where I was able to answer Hasunoha like this.

At that time, my wife pressured me to make a decision, and if she hadn't turned down my retreat, I think it probably wouldn't have led to marriage, ended up being disliked, or faded out over time...

Naturally, there are some risks in my life, and when I think about the future, I thought that nothing would be good in this state, and that even though my back hair was pulled (of course I don't have any hair that can be pulled... lol), I thought when I left the temple with my luggage due to moving to an apartment.

Of course, I don't think my example applies to LIMI, but I thought for a moment that LIMI was a little more aggressive and things would go just right in a well-balanced manner. I'm sorry if you made me feel bad.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho