I'm troubled by my son's rants and violence.

“My second-year middle school son's rants are sometimes troubled by violence”
“I'm told to die every day, and my heart is about to break.”

At least it has energy.

If you really love your son, be sure to look back and keep telling him “I always respect you and never despise you,” no matter how they are yelled at or when they run away from violence, and keep telling them “I always respect you and never despise you.” If he's raging for some reason, he'll surely approach you for help in a different way than he does now.

If by any chance, it's too pathological to handle, talk to the competent child counseling center. If there is a need for treatment, rehabilitation, or any other measures, I think they will respond appropriately.

　You're probably having a hard day dealing with the disease called cancer every day. Please take care of yourself.
Now, as for children's violent rants, they are probably unable to control themselves well by living the boundary between adults and children, which is also called middle 2 disease, during the period when the balance between mind and body cannot be achieved. I really want to take care of my mother, but I'm swept away by the eyes and air of my classmates. There's also the flip side of loneliness. I don't think I can honestly say kind words. Maybe my daughter is watching from a bit of a distance, too.
Just because you understand that, you might think you have no choice but to put up with it, but now there are various organizations and facilities that provide various support. If you're struggling alone, run into it. First of all, I think there is also a “cancer support center” in your town. Let's run in there. There is a “child-rearing support center” for raising children. I think the hospital you go to also has a support center. Don't be afraid, don't hesitate to rush in first, even tomorrow. Let's take action to protect our lives before we fall down due to worry.
If you have any further problems, please feel free to contact us. I'm on your side.

I read your question.
While carrying your illness,
I want to raise children somehow,
That feeling is heartbreaking,
It has been transmitted.
If you can do something about it,
It should probably be resolved within the family,
What are the words and actions of the son
If you cross that line,
I think so.
swearing,
it's sharp,
I'm going wild.
The range that can be suppressed with a single
It has been exceeded.

More and more in the future,
There is a possibility that it will escalate
higher,
If it's difficult to handle alone,
I think so.

child counseling centers,
Mental Health and Welfare Center
Legal Juvenile Support Center

Names depending on the region, etc.
It's mixed,
Domestic violence counseling
Please consult with the office.

My son will continue to do more and more
My body is getting bigger,
Your strength will also increase.
I think suppression is difficult.

Idiots, for the time being
I'm SW, PSW, a psychiatrist.
From that standpoint
Even if I tell you,
I wonder if it's a pretty tough situation
I think so.

Step by step,
Please contact us first.
Next, of administration, etc.
Ask a third party to intervene,
Get guidance and advice.
When a third party enters,
An inhibitory effect is created.

If that doesn't change,
To a free boarding school
It's about letting them move into the dormitory.

When you think about your child's future,
It may be a feeling of a broken stomach,
In the future, as a member of society,
If you want them to walk alone,
Rice from someone else's kettle
I wonder if it's necessary to eat it
I think so.
This is a last resort, though.

Please contact us as soon as possible.

Everyone in the family
I wish you all the best.

　Thank you for your question. Children grow up watching their parents, so I think they should show the right attitude.
Well, I really think children's rants and violence are because their balance of mind is out of balance. I think it would be better to be consulted by a school counselor or clinical psychologist rather than being consulted by a school teacher, and I think it would be good to think about it as a family. I think it would be harder for the mother herself than for the child, so I hope the mother's physical condition will improve first. Gassho