I'm having a double affair...

Kita-san
Break off the relationship while you have inseparable feelings!
There's no reason to be with him, and this will only result in hatred and bankruptcy in the end.
As for the thrilling affair, it's a passionate relationship and it would be fun, but at the end it's a muddy love-hate drama. If you want to continue, feel free to do so ☆

And then there will be no one...

Head: We have to break up.
Heart: I love you and I can't break up.
Body: I feel so good that I can't break up.
Is it something like this?

Unless you find something you really dislike,
You probably won't be able to break up.
If you seriously think we have to break up...
Seriously find out what he doesn't like.

It doesn't matter if you continue with him separately.
But break up with your husband, that's all.

Cut him if you don't make excuses like kids... income...

If you break up with your husband, it doesn't matter if you like him; if you notice what you did at that time, you can start over from there, and anyway, you feel sorry for your husband and children, so say goodbye.
You can't say nonsense that you can't start over from there; it's probably natural since they keep doing what's appropriate.

> I know, what we have to cherish is also our family.
I don't understand what you're saying.
I'm just using “I know it properly” as a cover; that's not the case when I know.
Even though I say I understand it with my mouth, I don't think that kind of thing at all in my head, and it's like I'm leaving it in a corner even when I think about it.

> We don't want to destroy each other's families
It's already broken, and it's broken even if both partners weren't aware when they were having a double affair
If you can't get rid of him, cut off your husband and kids; if you say no, it's selfish that's convenient for you.

You don't need to be prepared to hate your partner.

Please be disliked by your partner.
Will your affair partner dislike you,
Does your family hate you?

It's either one.

It's not about organizing.
You can force them to sort it out.
Don't forget that there is an ending.

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For monks who practice to become a Buddha
I want you to tell me how to dislike people
It's quite a difficult question.
Kita-sama
I'm not sure if it can actually be sorted out,
March is the season for farewells and milestones.
Please use it if it is helpful

Prince Motoyoshi Shinno (Motoyoshi Shinno) who thinks that if you make a person called Namba that is the same as wabinu, you'll never meet him
“I'm having a hard time not being able to meet you, but no matter what happens now, like Miotsukushi (Miotsukushi) in Namba, I want to meet you even if I do my best!!” It means.

After Emperor Uda (Uda Tenno), the Kyogoku Imperial Palace (Kyogoku no Miyasunokoro) was after Emperor Uda,
I fall in love with Princess Motoyoshi. Speaking in modern terms, it's an adulterous relationship.
This is a song I wrote while lamenting sorrow when it became known to the world.
Even during the Heian period, people sometimes took sides after those with the highest authority, so lives were at risk, wasn't it? It really is a life-threatening love.

It's called love sickness. If you get this disease, you won't be able to see your surroundings. Or rather, they stop trying to watch.
But it's fine. You know it with reason.
There will always come a time when you wake up. It fades. Let it cool down. You can charge any of them, right?
Everyone lives by carrying that work on their shoulders. Everything good and bad.
I live my life with my karma on my back, and you live with your karma.
However, you need to be prepared. If caught, there is a possibility that alimony will be claimed from the other party's wife,
Your husband may file for divorce.
The more I try to organize it, the harder it gets. Little by little, the full tide is receding.
What can we see when the tide is over?
It may be a muddy sandy area, or it may be a clean rocky area that has been thoroughly washed.
It's up to you to determine that. Because you are responsible for everything.
I know, but life is something I can't stop.
With each person's life, will they accumulate karma, or will they resolve cause and effect,
I think this is life again.
You may be asked if they encourage you even though they are monks. I would never encourage it.
But I'm not denying it either. It's your life.
I'm praying that the outlook opens up soon.