hasunoha

About my life span

I'm sorry I took your time to ask a question.
It seems that an acquaintance unlawfully told me to tell my fortune from someone who is inspired or capable of spiritual vision.

Then, tell me about me
“Die prematurely”
It seems that they were told they were “likely to die prematurely.”

When I asked why,
Because they tend to become ill, such as chronic diseases of specific diseases
Because they're too kind and get involved with so many people
Because I work too hard and I can't feel energized
Because my upbringing was unhappy
The reason I'm unhappy with my upbringing is because my ancestors were cursed and I took on all of those curses
Because sometimes shadows look faint
Because my ancestors used to kill people
Because they are poor beings whose past lives have been killed by people, they are dragging on that sadness

I heard from an acquaintance that they were told something like that.
It honestly doesn't make me feel good.
I was shocked that my fortune was taken without permission.

However, I have a daughter and husband, and I would like to go to another world after properly leaving my assets and memories for my daughter and husband.

What I want to ask you as a question
1 Is it better to end your life just in case from now on
2 Is there a way to extend life
3 In the first place, is it OK not to deal with things that have a short lifespan since they are inspirational commercial methods?
4 Should I break up with my acquaintances?
I want to hear it from a monk's point of view.
Thank you for your support.

5 Zen Responses

It's 3 and 4

Hello.

As you've probably noticed, it's probably inspirational commerce.
If you can see the future, you won't have a hard time.
What you heard about “spiritual vision” can be said to be the modus operandi of inspirational commerce according to the textbook.

I recommend that you forget about that “spiritual vision,” don't deal with them, and don't get too involved with that friend.

I wonder if life span is something no one knows

As the saying goes impermanent, things are constantly changing and nothing has a fixed appearance. Also, it is absolutely impossible to accurately predict what shape things will take next or what will happen.

Of course, if you want to live a long time, it is important to pay attention to your health and discipline yourself. If you continue to live an unhealthy lifestyle, the probability of premature death is high. However, when it comes to whether you can definitely live a long time because you take care of your health, you can reduce the possibility of premature death, but this is definitely not the case.

Rather than making those wishes come true, Buddhist teachings create minds that think “that's fine.” So, if you think it's better to end your life, it's a good day if you think of it, so go ahead and do it.

There is no absolute way to extend your lifespan, but you will live a regular lifestyle by paying attention to your health without worrying about being small.

There are many people who really feel that way when it comes to other people's spiritual vision, so there's no need to assert that it's an inspirational commercial method, but there's no need to worry too much about it.

You probably don't need to break up a relationship with someone you know. Regardless of whether it's the right thing or not, they're probably saying it out of concern and concern.

In short, it's a matter of where you are based

Hello, nice to meet you.

I also read your previous question.
It is said that the fortune was taken without permission. It would have been nice if the content was full of hope, but I don't think I'll be able to welcome it this time around. It must be a mixed state of mind.

I will answer them in order.

1 Is it better to end your life just in case from now on

Every sect of Buddhism is founded on death as an important keyword.
This is because I was able to think deeply about the Buddha's life, old age, illness, and death.
No matter how much we live our lives the way we want (according to our worries), there are old illnesses and deaths that don't go the way we want. I think with an awareness of the question of whether what you want makes you happy in the first place.

In this sense, Buddhism is always conscious of the “end of life.”
However, it is an “end of life” to face worries and happiness.
There is a difference between focusing only on whether to die or not to die to be driven away by the words of a fortune teller like this one.

Where will you place your pivot?
Are you a fortune teller, Buddhism, or something else?
As a result, the meaning of “end of life” naturally becomes different.

2 Is there a way to extend life span

Similar to 1, this also differs depending on where the pivot is placed.
There is no such way of thinking in the Jodo Shinshu sect.
Rather, how do you live in a limited amount of life. No matter when and where you die, I think the place you go is the same Pure Land of Paradise in Amida's arms. I think there's peace of mind there. The direction of extending life expectancy is fundamentally different.

3 In the first place, is it OK not to deal with things that have a short lifespan since they are inspirational commercial methods?

Like 1 and 2, this also depends on your basic stance.
However, if you feel even slightly shaken by the “Inspiration Commercial Code,” you should think that your base, the foundation of your life, includes your current weaknesses. I recommend that you think about a base. In Buddhism, there is a Buddha that is based in each sect.

4 Should I break up with my acquaintances?

Is an “acquaintance” the “best friend” in the previous question?
Why don't you start by keeping a little distance rather than suddenly “cutting ties”? Hey, if you feel that the relationship is too close and too much moderation, why not do that as a first step.

This is a quick answer.

Who paid for spiritual vision?

 Are you born weak? Infectious diseases are also prevalent, so please take care of yourself.
Well, it seems that an acquaintance has taken spiritual care of you, but is that true? Since you weren't at the scene, the question remains about how an acquaintance said about you. A dramatization can also be considered.
I have a question.
1 Is it better to end your life just in case from now on
Answer) It's important to think about death, not fortune telling.
2 Is there a way to extend life
Answer) What you can do now is live a regular lifestyle.
3 In the first place, is it OK not to deal with things that are likely to have a short lifespan since they are inspirational commercial methods?
Answer) I don't know. But it's premature to trust someone you've never met. Let's calm down.
4 Should I break up with my acquaintances?
Answer) If it's someone important to you, I think it's fine to continue to have the same relationship as before.
 

③ and ④, aren't they?

① I don't think it's necessary until the so-called end of life
“Live now so you can die anytime”
That spirit is necessary.

② You can live a way of life that avoids illness and aging.