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I'm worried about continuing to wait

I fell in love with a maid at first sight at a con cafe, and I only went to see that maid once every 3 months. The place where my favorite maid works is different from a normal con cafe, so they always treated me simply. That maid treated me in a special way, and she confided in me before anyone else that she would graduate as a maid before opening to the public.
At that time, I confessed to that maid, and she also told me that she really liked me, but since we couldn't exchange contact information, I was told that when I came to that store as a young lady after graduation, I wanted them to wait because I wanted them to express my feelings again and start with a relationship with friends. However, after that maid graduated, I felt very uneasy because I didn't know if she would actually come back to the store and that I didn't know when I would meet her. How can we feel safe?

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From a gourd to a piece, that's just right

Hello.

A “con cafe” is a concept cafe, isn't it?
I first learned about the existence of a cafe that incorporates a specific concept after searching.

How long has it been since they “asked you to wait”?

You have a special “maid” who “confided in you before anyone else that you would graduate as a maid.” When you “confide in me,” you “confessed.” Then, “That Maid” said “I really like you.”

However, “contact information cannot be exchanged.”
They said “after graduation,” “when you came to the store,” and “I want you to wait because I want you to start with a relationship with your friends.”

Seen from a third party's point of view, the series of exchanges between you and “that maid” seems like just an exchange from the standpoint of being a “maid” or an employee of that store. That means I was still in my position as an employee, even though I was about to “graduate” from the store.

This is just a third party's point of view.
In fact, there may be times when you “come to the store” “after graduation.”

However, establishing a relationship that goes beyond the standpoint of a store's customers and employees may be just right without becoming “uneasy” to think about it from a gourd. The more effort you put in, the more “uneasy” you become.

I don't feel so “at ease” that I put effort into making my wishes come true.
Rather, I think we will be blessed with “peace of mind” and peace of mind by loosening the direction in which one wishes are fulfilled.

It was an opinion from a third party.

Correctly accept the ultimate true meaning of love and love, and continue respectful love.

If love is to stain love with self-love, love will die as love.
The mission of idols like ❝ young lady ❞, who is loved by many people, is to give “equal love to all people.”
So, were the words that the woman was told also made with love as “what kind of tension”? As a “customer,” I think we must properly explain our position as a “customer” to receive love there. Men in particular sometimes, even in a set “omisee” situation, often misunderstand that the other person's smile or goodwill is really the other person's favor even though the other person's smile or goodwill is service.
If there was a real favor, wouldn't it be normal that emails and phone numbers would have been exchanged a long time ago? Therefore, in order for neither of them to be hurt, let's value the spirit of the commandment so that this side does not ask for more demands than that, based on the position that love was given as public love as a service. The rules should be respected so that people are not allowed to walk into the temple hall with their feet.
I also meet my best friend from time to time, and he knows the man's own drama saga properly, and he said, “Today, until I met Mr. Tange, I fell in love with 7 women on the train. (laughs)” he said. It seems that she was delusional about meeting a woman of her choice. Also, it seems that they spoke for themselves the humorous saga (sex) called the male brain's misunderstanding of love, looked at its function, and also enjoyed it quietly without being bound by it.
Now, the important thing.
True love never hurts the other person. And I won't hurt myself either. This is important.
True love that doesn't develop into romance lasts longer. Friendship is a permanent feeling that cannot be broken.
As a mentality for fans of idols, the ultimate love that makes everyone happy is true love that doesn't break each other's dreams or the human mentality of “favor ♡” in male-female romance, and it's respect for love.
In other words, unless it's a relationship of self-love called the so-called romance between a man and a woman in the world, it's a love called a store relationship, so isn't daring to get serious there, maintain a good sense of distance, and not go deep in a form of true love where you tear off a flower blooming in the field and not damage that life?
Don't you think of your girlfriend as if you were picking “I want her to bloom for me”? That's not love. Continued respect and love 🌼

I can't rely on it

I like idols and live chat, too, but wouldn't it be nice to have an unbound love?
With casual romantic feelings, you should be aware that there is no future.

If we can still meet at the store,

Even if it's just your contacts
Is it impossible to teach?

Decide the day to come after graduation
Can't we even promise that?

If those too are prohibited
Say “I'll come every day for 1 week after graduation”
You should have them come as a young lady in the meantime.