It's a difficult problem...
A zealous heart is wonderful, but when it comes to being forced...
I feel like I understand that Rintaro will feel uneasy going forward.
I have had similar consultations several times in the past.
In my case, the woman brought her marriage partner to her parents for the first time. When you meet, buy a Buddhist altar and worship!
I say that. It seems like they were pretty enthusiastic parents,
She had a hard time and was conflicted.
But with my boyfriend's understanding, I managed to persuade my parents!?
Let's do it. It was fine and we got married.
What I was able to give my advice was not to deny the family first, but to show an attitude of understanding, to the family
I calculated how much money my life would cost in the future with predictions ← well, how about Buddhism (laughs) but when I presented the most economical story because it was easy to understand, I gradually moved towards understanding.
It's better to convey economic reality without going up to the foundation of doctrine
For me, religion has a meaning. I think it's like home. Even if I go out of the house every day, there are places I come back to. I think it's wonderful to have a home with a heart that accepts you even when you're not aware of it, because it gives you a warm heart.
However, just like neighborhood associations, neighbors don't have the same educational policy (doctrine), but I think it's important to get along well and help each other, but a fervent sense of religion sometimes creates exclusive values.
Just a word of caution, don't deny those people!
They are serious and hardworking people, so I think there are some things we can learn from those people.
It's going to be tough, but please don't overdo it