I regret naming my child

Hello.

Simply put, this is a matter of your criteria for judgment (base of mind).

At first, “number of strokes” was your standard of judgment.
The child's name was decided to be that kanji from “the surname and number of strokes were good.”
Even now, that “number of strokes” continues to be used as a criterion for judgment.

First of all, “number of strokes” is fortune telling.
There is no direct connection with Buddhism.

What became the next problem was “I can't read with guesswork.”
I'm also thinking, “You'll notice that you can't read, and you'll have a hard time.”

However, this “guessing” is often found in modern names.
If you only pay attention to your own children, that's all you worry about, but if you look around, you'll notice that there are not a few. No matter what people around you say, just keep in mind that the name is filled with parents' wishes and thoughts.

Also, it's a special reading for children, but I think it's a good idea to tell them that it's something like that. Children are more flexible than adults think.

As long as you use the “stroke count” diagnosis and the laws of kanji reading as the best judgment criteria, you won't run out of worries about that forever. Actually, you think about “renaming even with just the kanji,” but you're probably in a state where “none of the kanji have a very good number of strokes” or “recently I've only been thinking about this, and I can't sleep much.”

Buddhism has a standard for judging Nanmu (based on...).
Namu Amitabha Buddha, Namu Shakyamuni Buddha, etc. are expressions that they each use the Buddha as their own standard of judgment.

There is no separation between people saying that Amida-sama has this kind of name.
No matter what kind of life you are in, they will support you and say they will live together.
Therein lies unchanging happiness.

The “number of strokes” has become like this, so you may not be happy.
I can't read, so maybe I won't be happy.
As long as we base ourselves on these unstable values, anxiety will not go away.

Why don't you use Buddha as the standard of judgment?
I recommend it.

worship

That's a wonderful name~
it's hard to move over, isn't it?
such a thing is not a matter of hardship
and kids don't know how hard it is
The only thing I struggle with is thinking about the same things
It is an adult whose adaptability gradually declines

There is a difference between heaven and earth in children's adaptability compared to adults
Even if something bad happens
A mother who thinks about a problem that won't be solved over and over
You're just having an unhappy way of thinking, aren't you?

I always pray for people's happiness every day without distinction
Then, at one point, I noticed
when you're only worried about yourself or others
When there are people like that
brilliantly in a place like that
It's about the fact that unhappiness and anxiety are gathering

Prayer guides people, oneself, and the environment in a positive direction
On the other hand, anxiety and fear lead everything in a bad direction
This is called a curse

the more the mother thought about it, the more she thought about it
It's no different from cursing a child's name
this is putting the cart before the horse

Please write the child's name and reason and put it on a high place
The origin is fine even in hiragana
That's all, the name problem is solved

May all happiness come to Mai-san's family

Gassho

I read it.
I read what you are worried about. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
When I saw it, I felt that it was a very nice name. I was able to imagine my child growing up healthy and relaxed.
So I don't think it's something that despicable by any means.

By the way, you can't read the names of recent children until you listen to them. So what I'm listening to has been interrupted, so please don't worry about it.

On the other hand, as your child grows, I think they will become aware that their parents are hoping that their future and life will be wonderful, and they will grow with confidence.
They are everyone's irreplaceable children, so as the name suggests, please keep an eye on them while promoting healthy growth.

I also sincerely pray for the healthy growth of your children, and I sincerely pray that everyone will get along well and live a happy life.

I certainly can't read it normally because of the guise
There are quite a few names I'm at a loss to read.
Sachiko (Sachiko Yukiko) or something
Yu (Masaru Yu) or something.

What is someone else's first name
I don't really care
Your child's name will catch you
On the contrary, I think it will be a name people will remember.