The abnormal complex of being inexperienced in sexual intercourse

Tee-sama

I think humans are creatures that love to fantasize about various things. Delusions grow, especially when it comes to things you have no experience with. Before entering high school or college, you can admire the adult world and be free. I remember being delusional about various things that would change from my life up until now.
Once you enroll, you quickly get used to it and become “like this.”

Surprisingly, once you experience it, it's just nothing, and it's something that doesn't matter. Also, I don't have the feeling of making a fool of someone who is inexperienced. Because just because you've experienced it doesn't change that much ^_^

When I was a kid, I admired the Yasuno family.
After eating it, I learned about the taste of Yasunoya. There was no change in my life. There is only that degree of difference between before and after eating.

The information about making fun of virginity is probably the influence of television. Actually, there are probably almost no people who really make a fool of people who have been influenced by it. It doesn't matter.

Still, compare yourself to others, and if you suffer, go away. Go to manners! Then it would be nice if they could teach me about eloquence there.
It's going to be nothing. Your worries up until now will also be blown away!!

No matter what you do, people are always beginners. There are things that are more important than other people's eyes.

I think there are many people who laugh at virgins who work hard to act as non-virgins (laughs)
According to research, the ratio doesn't seem to have changed that much, even in the modern age where it is said that the concept of chastity has faded for both men and women.

Now, in terms of Buddhism, it is one of the sufferings of being alive, but I understand very well that they struggle to suppress sexual desire as the same man.
However, this is basically all you have to do if you don't find a good girlfriend fast ^^;

If you think that non-virgins and non-virgins are cool because people are made to dance with the voices around you in an age of too much information, that's probably a ridiculous mistake.
Anyway, even if you become good friends with the opposite sex in a way, various habituation and environment are necessary to reach such an act, but this is like daily medicine.

Even if you don't get impatient, “that time” will come naturally sooner or later.

When people around you laugh at you as herbivores or something, you should say a word.

“Sorry. I'm a foodie.” and.

Do you know the word “affliction”?

I hope you can look up the dictionary meaning again,
If you look at the kanji, they say “bothersome (annoyed)” and “annoyed (annoyed).”

One of the purposes of Buddhism is to become aware of such self-afflictions and obtain a way of life that adjusts to them.

You are struggling with your own sexual desires, and while being aware of the gaze of others, you are staring at your uncontrollable self.
I'm worried about what is the root of the troublesome trouble that is elusive from there, and how it can be solved.
Actually, I think your troubled way of life itself is a “Buddhist way of life.”

If you were obsessed only about abandoning your virginity, you probably hurt your partner and even committed sexual crimes without pretending to have sex with others, regardless of whether you were worried or upset yourself.

However, you control your own sexual desires well in relationships with others (people you have been in a relationship with), do not run away from troublesome worries, and are used as food for facing yourself.

It's such a wonderful way to live.

Humans are social creatures. I am a person who was born and raised in relationships with others, lived today, and connected to tomorrow's lives, even though the self-centeredness of worry is the essence.
Please don't make this problem your own problem, and continue to face bothersome worries for a while.

As an aside, I will add that sexual customs replace the relationship between self and others, which Buddhism values, with “male dominance,” “commercialization of sex,” and “disdain for people who engage in sexual customs,” and there is a risk that sexual self-determination will be significantly impaired.

I was a virgin with firm thoughts, so
There's nothing shameful about.

but
I'm about to get in the way of getting in the way,
Let's get it done quickly.

However, it's just that it's “fujai ingai (fujai),”
Please engage in proper and loving sexual activity.