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It makes my parents feel irritated.

I failed the university entrance exam, so I decided to become a ronin in spring.

My parents were uncooperative with the entrance exam because they didn't care about the volume on the TV even when I was studying, they wouldn't listen to me even if I said I had to turn the volume down, and they made me go out even if I said I wanted to study.
When I was on active duty, I reported the entrance exam school to my parents, and even though they were given the exam fee, I didn't have a proper grasp of the entrance exam school, and I said to the anti-slip university, “Why are you taking it where you don't want to go? After the ronin was decided, “I don't understand,” he said in a disgusting manner.

Also, despite the fact that there are universities that haven't taken the exam yet (not reckless in terms of level), people talked about “because I found a prep school,” as if they had already decided to be a ronin.
After Ronin was decided, he compared him with others and took a detour and said, “If you don't aim higher than your first aspiration, you won't be accepted after all.”
But what was most irritating was going to a briefing session at the prep school I've been attending since spring, and while there were other science courses, I consulted with my parents and made the pharmacy course, but after paying tuition fees, I thought, “Aren't you taking other faculties?” I've been talking about two waves and three waves like that.
My parents have always known that I was able to complete a pharmacy course, and on top of that, why change now? Do you think I won't be accepted by Ichiba? A lot of emotions have crept up, etc.
I even talked to my friends, but there were times when I couldn't complain over and over again, and I cried because I had no place to do it.

My parents are the ones who pay the prep school fees, exam fees, and university tuition fees, and it was my lack of effort and ability that led to such results. I knew what I was worried about, so no matter how irritated I was, I couldn't get upset.
But after all, “Why do you only say stressful things? You say you're rooting for me, but don't you believe me? It makes me think, “I don't understand the meaning.”

When I told them something I didn't like about being casually said by my parents, they said, “Huh? You didn't say that, did you?” It came back, so I thought I wasn't aware of it.

Am I worrying too much?
Are parents of prospective students like this?
Even if I try not to worry about it, it gets irritated again after a while, what should I do?

I didn't really understand what was right, so I consulted.
It's been a long time, but please give me some advice etc.

3 Zen Responses

The temperature difference is amazing.

I was a little stunned.
your sense of tension or urgency. It comes across as jigwow to me.
I made a big mistake at the entrance exam, so not only was 2 ronin 1 year old,
Speaking of the terrible hardships of studying, even after that.
I've been studying since I'm 50. Even now, I sometimes dream about announcing my acceptance.
It was a physical and mental limit.
They say 4 to 5 drops, and if they sleep for 4 hours, they will pass, but those who sleep for 5 hours won't.
I remember being cornered by rumors that had no basis whatsoever.
But you should never imitate it. If you don't sleep enough, it won't get into your brain.
It's going to be extremely inefficient. Ensure at least 6 hours of sleep,
Please live a regular lifestyle by incorporating exercise such as walking.
The scariest thing is getting caught up in a nighttime lifestyle.
Something bothers me during the daytime, so I fall into the night type where people don't interfere.
Please wake up properly in the morning and go to bed at about 1 o'clock at the latest at night.
To put it bluntly, human interference is annoying and annoying. But from an objective point of view,
What do you call it, it's a change of pace.
Conversely, it's not good to have a quiet environment where no one interferes with you.
I'm going to catch up with myself.
What should I do if next year falls again even though there's no basis for anything? I mean.
Think about things you can't help but think about in an infinite loop.
Conversely, if it's noisy and loud, it's definitely better to be distracted.
I studied at daytime prep school until night in the prep school study room,
I went home, ate, and studied again.
I think parents probably care in their hearts.
But once you know they're quiet and careful,
There's a tremendous amount of pressure on this.
You know that, and aren't you just lying around?
Besides, taking the exam and going to college are also a process in your life.
Not everything in life, you can recover as much as you want,
Life Manji Saio is called a horse. I don't know what's good and what's bad.
Over the past 3 years, I have had trouble and suffering in my life, and I have awakened to the teachings of the Buddha.
That's it.
Have fun taking the exam. Next year, I should go to the place where I got accepted.
Blessings be upon you!!

I want to support you as you take on the challenge.

You've worked very hard to reach your goals.
The results may have been a step short, but first, I'd like to commend you for your hard work, which was great. The exam period probably used quite a bit of nerves in terms of physical condition management and mental aspects. First, let's take a good rest and prepare our minds for a fresh start. Taking a detour can also enrich your life. Not a single thing is useless.
I wonder if your parents are sassy ~ I don't think it's offensive, but it sounds a bit insensitive. You put up with it a lot ~ that was great ◎ Even so, I am grateful because I was raised. You're a good kid ◎
I think it's encouragement and support in the form of parents. (Other faculties say aim for the top)

We support you as you take on challenges at prep school with friends who are aiming for the same goals again. Take a break once in a while.

Maybe it's the kindness of parents.

You did your best to take the exam.
And efforts will continue to be made from now on.

She's a wonderful woman who can thank her parents.

I was also a parent of an examinee, and the inside of the house had a unique, tingling atmosphere.

The parents, who were not involved, also went right and left.

Your parents actually understood, and I felt that they were considerate of you.

If you're a parent, you should know about you.

Maybe the expressions and gestures are a bit lame...

They are wonderful parents who keep a close eye on them.

We are waiting for good news next year here (^^)

If it were you, I'm sure it would be fine.