I want you to use harsh words to scold me.

I don't really understand your personality, but maybe you have flaws unique to perfect people?
I'm sorry if I missed your point.

It seems that perfect people naturally seek the same perfection in their partner even if they aren't aware of it.
I've been trying this hard, so why can't you try hard at all? or,
I think about you this much, so why don't you think about me at all?
and so on.
There are probably many other patterns.

If so, I recommend that you don't ask for too much from them.
Please acknowledge your opponent's shortcomings.
Please forgive your opponent for their mistakes.
Men are attracted to such kindness.

In the words of Dogen Zenji, the founder of the Soto sect

“People who don't socialize with people in the world and only grow up at home are people who act according to their heart, don't know the public eye, and are always afraid to take care of people's hearts.”
(If you retreat to your home and don't have relationships with people outside, you will have self-centered thoughts, you will not be able to think about the other person's feelings, and you will hurt people around you by prioritizing your own desires, which is a bad thing)

There is such a thing.

It was close to the content of the question, so I quoted it.

Currently, it seems that they are struggling with relationships with people, but in the midst of such friction, try worrying and thinking about various things, such as thinking about the other person's feelings and putting your own desires on the back burner. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful person.

He's an endlessly spoiled person.
Don't ask people to drink you.
Put it in yourself.

　Generally speaking, I don't think you're sweet enough to require blackmail. I think he is a serious person with good conduct. “I don't smoke, drink, or gamble, and I spend my money sparingly.” When I hear that, it's impeccable. I have lived a serious life with good conduct, so when I dare say, “It's boring to be an honor student. It's hard to date.” I think there are people who get that impression.

If I were to give you my own words, it would probably be “Wako Dojin (Wako Dojin).” It means that the light that the Buddha emits from itself can be softened and applied to the dust along with sentient beings.

Your seriousness is sometimes too dazzling to those around you, isn't it? Being serious is a good thing, but don't you think there are times when you build a wall between you and your surroundings because of strictness? They seem to be proud that they are sociable, but I think they got settled somewhere and ended up in a bad relationship. Sometimes, I think it's necessary to have a relationship where you break down walls, expose yourself, and break your stomach.
Force those who don't drink alcohol to “drink alcohol.” I'm not saying that. Why don't you have a hobby, be passionate about it, and have time to immerse yourself in the world of hobbies with people you like?