Actually, I'm gay, I've known it since I was a kid, in this world where it's hard for gays to fall in love, it's even more difficult for gays to fall in love these days, but gays are in the minority and don't know where their partner is if they don't come out, I know that there are dating sites etc. all over the world, there are wolves looking for sex, and it just smells dangerous, what should I do I wonder if they're going to die without being in a relationship like this
Why don't you spread the word about friendship before thinking about romance? I'm sorry to be able to answer that, but that's all. “Start with friends” is a staple in love. It might be a good idea to say that. It really is a difficult world for minorities to live in. But you are the one who changes the world's values. It may take a lot of energy to get social recognition for people like you. You should find a community that's easier for you to get into than searching in a dating community. Or you should create your own community.
That community doesn't just gather people from the same minority as you, but it's a community that also accepts people who understand it. You're young, so there are plenty of possibilities. Even if we don't change the world, we may be able to throw one stone into the world and cause ripples. As far as I can, that's fine. How about starting by getting someone to understand you first? Sorry for the lack of advice.
Gays are by no means special. It's unavoidable that it's still difficult for minorities to fall in love in Japan today.
As written, there are some sites, but not everything can be affirmed when it comes to trustworthiness. Unfortunately.
I myself continued to worry even before it became an internet society, and I found my own answers.
It means entering the world of the Buddha instead of seeking a living person.
I profess that I am married to Kobo Daishi. It may be annoying to the master, but at least in my mind, it is. I can't trust a living person, so that's what happened. But this is my case.
Now, unlike in the past, it seems that once you find an opportunity, it's no longer difficult to find a physical partner. There are also people I know who are in de facto same-sex marriage.
Don't give up and take your time to find the partner you're looking for. Of course, like me, you can also enter the world of the Buddha as the ultimate platonic.
I saw your question.
You can't have a relationship without it.
I know a few people who tie themselves up and can't get out of their worries in a narrow strike zone that they decided for themselves.
When it comes to Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, recommending romance, I think he was in a position to let go of obsession.
Seen from the perspective of an old man in his 40s who lives in the countryside
There is an impression that hungry wolves lurk in dating sites regardless of whether they are gay or not.
(Sorry if my preconceptions are wrong)
So,
・What should Tabe-sama do?
・Will they continue to die without falling in love?
In response to the question,
Unrequited love is also a great love affair.
Instead of dying without being in a relationship, Tabe-sama himself probably came to think that Tabe-sama himself was gay because he had the experience of falling in love with someone.
On top of that, what are we going to do now?
Whether you're gay or not, I think the course of your life will change depending on what you look for in a relationship.
If only being a man or woman is a condition of romance, I feel that it is difficult to make a relationship last a long time, governed by the view of romance in the world of wolves.
Hobbies, sense of beauty, stoic attitude, etc.
I feel that my worries are likely to decrease if there are many parts where the values I value overlap.
It's just a personal opinion, so please use it if you find it helpful.
Hello Tabe-san.
You're not worried about being gay; you're struggling with love.
Whether you're in a gay or lesbian relationship, it's hard to find a lover, and you experience love while worrying.
Currently, there are also gay sites. Not all of them are werewolves. As gays, I have many friends who make friends and share my worries. If you're a student, there must also be a group of fellow students. If you're a student, you should only follow the rule that you won't meet, and have various consultations and information exchanges. Once you're a member of society, why don't you join social gatherings and look for friends and partners? Until then, let's just put up with idols.
Gassho
My name is Yuki Shizuku.
A female professional wrestler who is a counselor apprentice.
FYI
http://yokosuka.ship-web.com/
It's a homosexual community where an acquaintance of parliament I know is involved.
It seems that you can expand your circle of friends by confiding in various concerns. I've been told before that if there are children suffering from homosexuality, please introduce them to them.
Incidentally, I love male actors in the Takarazuka Revue, and every time I see male actors in the Takarazuka Revue, I don't think men are men.
The room is full of pictures of male actors from the Takarazuka Revue. If I don't say anything, I can't fully talk about their appeal... ❤
Whether it's a man or a woman, nice things are wonderful.
What is attractive has appeal.
I think it comes down to that.
Incidentally, there are also counselors who specialize in homosexuality.
It might be a good idea to think about it with your counselor.
Please do your best\ (^-^) ／