I don't want to sell the house I love.

(From the Editorial Department. (Part of the answer has been corrected)

Thank you for your question.
I have feelings that I don't want to let go of because I have feelings for them.
But not just you, there are one or two things that everyone, including me, doesn't want to let go of.
What is really important to you?
What can't you get with money?
Don't fight by blaming your partner during difficult times.
I hope they can overcome it by encouraging each other and cooperating.
As long as you have the power to act as you asked in the previous question, I think you can do anything anywhere.
Be sure to consult with a lawyer, certified public accountant, judicial scrivener, or other person who is familiar with money to make a plan.
Maybe even if you don't sell your house, you can just rent it out.

In Buddhism, obsession is thought to cause trouble and suffering, and they try to let go of obsession by understanding the truth about impermanent behavior.
You must throw away any kind of property when you die anyway.
It's something you lose sooner or later, so be sure to stop delusional thoughts about the past in a short time in order to enjoy everyday life now and here that you haven't lost yet.
May peaceful destruction come as delusions, distractions, and thoughts about the past, the future, and oneself and others circulate in a dignified manner.

I read it.
Your husband has failed in business and is in debt, so you have to let go of your favorite house. You really don't want to let go, do you? Your painful feelings are very much conveyed. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
I think it's reasonable for you to think so. It's probably an important house that I'm used to living in and have a fondness for. You'll feel frustrated, sad, and lonely, and there won't be any shortage of worries and suffering about why this happens, and why you have to feel this way. I think it's probably because it's hard to give up.

It may not be easy for your emotions to subside, but please take a break.
You may not be able to calm down, but please take a slow breath and try exhaling slowly.
You are still living well today, and your loved ones are also living well.
First, please feel that you are alive.
You, your husband, and everyone are living well now and in the future, and you are living well in various encounters and cycles.
You and all of you are living through changes. It changes all the time and never stays.
It's just like being in a temporary inn, so to speak. They will move away at some point.
Let's calm down little by little, try to be calm, and slowly look at ourselves and our surroundings.

I sincerely pray to Buddha, God, and your ancestors so that you and everyone will continue to receive many blessings and grow healthily, and that you can live a hearty and fulfilling life amidst various connections and encounters. We wholeheartedly agree
And I wholeheartedly support you and everyone.

You're in a state where there's nothing you can do but sell your house... It's painful because you seem to lose everything from your home, your life, and even your memories. Living in this safe home has probably been supported by being able to stand up until now. So I think it's scary that they seem to lose support for life beyond their obsession.
Even though I don't want to fight, and even though I don't want to blame, the current situation of what should I do becomes a phrase directed at my husband, isn't it?

It's really painful, isn't it? Even though I wasn't depicting this state of affairs, a business also requires management skills and the ability to look ahead. There is success, and so is the risk of getting into debt. There must have been things you had anticipated. You probably have feelings of not being able to abandon your husband in this current situation, but is it necessary for you to have debts together? You're being pressured to make a final decision.

Let's think about how we live and whether we value what we protect without being limited only to the place called home.
Something important. If you have it, you'll definitely be able to look forward again. Is that your husband? Is it myself? Is it liberation from everything? What are you going to do first? Don't misunderstand that.

That's really unfortunate, isn't it?
Oh, that's too bad, that's too bad. The brain's response is honest, so I think it's okay for you to be honest first. it's a pity.
First, be honest with your feelings.
Then, work on your mind in order to rebuild from there, correct your trajectory, and change to a new life. A person's heart begins to move towards good results through good relationships. Therefore, things have suddenly changed now, and I don't think your feelings can catch up, but the important thing is to live your life with peace of mind and peace of mind even if the environment around you changes.
To that end, let's calmly judge the current situation without getting emotional, and make good efforts so that we can feel safe in our future lives.
Let me introduce one interesting Taoist Song.
“Snails are so good-looking” 🐌
Wherever snails go, they carry their homes on their backs.
Let's talk about that house, our home.
Have you ever lived alone when you were a student?
Or maybe you stayed at a hotel or ryokan on your trip.
The house that surrounds you there is HOUSE, so it's a building.
What is important is not the thing, but the home, the home. family. Something like green beans.
It would be lonely if your partner clings to things, things, and substances, clings more towards things than who you are, and doesn't treat you even when you turn around. If that's the case, no matter what house the couple is in, they won't be a home.
You're probably the other person, but the one who's most depressed right now is probably your partner, who has disappointed you and thinks you've failed the most.
“Snails are so good-looking”
This song goes beyond the idea of a house as a building, and contains an important spirit for making it OK no matter where you go.
You can't take the things you own from life to the next world.
Minimalists see value in not having things.
“Things, Tanu, Moto, Light, Cool in the Evening” 🌇
Clothes worn by monks and the “basket,” which is a pocket for Japanese clothes, are easier to move around if there is no luggage.
Please keep this logic in mind for a while.
The home is more important than the house.
People are more important than things.
What is important is not only yourself, but someone who lives with you, shouldn't you? Gassho