I lost my daughter
There is a word called karma
My daughter and I both committed crimes in previous lives
Do they feel this way in this world
If there is an afterlife, will the same thing be repeated
Then I hope you don't want to be reborn
Regardless of me, my daughter was a person who never really did anything wrong
Why did it happen like this
The karma theory is difficult, but in a nutshell, it means “having the experiences you need right now”
Who you are in this world is after consulting with your daughter's soul beforehand
“Your Experience Overcoming Your Daughter's Death”
I thought it was necessary, so I'm experiencing that now
So, you may or may not have committed a crime in your previous life
Rather than that, my daughter is asking me to confront and overcome that sadness now
That's the idea of karma theory
The good thing about this way of thinking is that your daughter's soul is waiting for you after she dies
There are many ways of thinking in this world, and I think there is salvation in all of them
The sadness you are seeing is huge
Please pray that you can arrive at a way of thinking that supports you
The depth of grief over the loss of a loved one is immeasurable to others, and if it is a child, it is probably even harder to accept. Then, our mind tries to somehow interpret and give meaning, “There must be some very terrible reason for such a terrible thing to happen.”
When life is born in this life, what shape and what kind of world it is born into depends on the “state” formed by interacting with many good and bad actions performed in previous lives as causes (causes).
This “state” is called karma (karma).
There are good and bad behaviors in previous lives. Therefore, it is incorrect to think of karma as a crime in a previous life being punished in this life.
Since karma is updated by the interaction of countless factors that occur and appear one after another, experiences in this world will not be repeated in the next.
Karma is a “state” that appears and is renewed by actions that continue to be performed moment by moment regardless of whether they are conscious or unconscious, and it is neither a crime nor a punishment. Also, on the contrary, it is neither a credit nor a reward.
We cannot accurately know or predict what kind of karma determined the shape of life in this life, or what kind of karma will determine the shape of life in the next life.
The point is to know that difficult experiences in this life did not happen because you or your loved ones were sinners or villains before. The meaning of crime or punishment is a delusion created by deep sorrow.
This delusion is similar to scratching the itch caused by an insect with a fingernail, for example. When you scratch it, you have the illusion that the itching will disappear for a while, but in reality, it only further damages the skin and the pain is superimposed on the itch, which does not solve the source of the itch.
It is said that she lost her young lady. How sad it must be. As a parent with children, I also feel painfully well. I would like to express my sincere condolences.
Right now, I think you're in a really difficult situation.
Karma is all about cause, relationship, effect, and just now, the work, occurrence, and karma in this world.
I hope that even if the young lady's appearance as a law within her father rises to a higher level and her relationship changes, she will become a new entity, a Buddha, and that they will continue to walk together forever.
The sutras of the Buddha's will also say this.
Whoever sees my disappearing body is not really a person who sees me.
They say that only those who awaken to enlightenment will always see Me.
The word Satori mentioned here is correct sense. It means awakening to a right, intelligent mind.
A correct, intelligent heart does not mean that you are not sad now that your young lady has passed away. It's sad and natural. But suffering must be overcome.
It's about the young lady I love, so I may not be able to calm my heart right away.
When people hear the words past lives or karma, it seems that many people misunderstand that it was before they were born, but no one can prove such arguments.
Everything in this world, work, exists to make people happy. Karma is by no means what previous lives were like; it means that results are created by involving all people and all life that exist in this world as a whole. I understand the feeling that I'm not convinced by any means that my young lady passed away unlucky.
The human body and mind vibrate rapidly and slightly at the cellular level, and strictly speaking, it is different from its previous state, and it continues to be reborn constantly. It's not what it used to be, it's always in a new state. A previous life is a world where you spent time with your daughter from now until before, and an afterlife is a world where you will interact with your daughter in a new way from now on. I believe that living this moment with care will also lead to a memorial service for the young lady. Please keep a strong heart and cherish every day. Little by little, little by little, try to communicate with your young lady sincerely.
No matter what, when people have a hard time, they can only see themselves and the scenery of themselves.
The young lady probably has something she wants to tell her father right now.
Hachi-san, I would like to express my sincere condolences for saying goodbye to my precious young lady. In the midst of indescribable sorrow, we will take the relationship with great care when you have a feeling that you have no place to talk to us.
With the word “karma,” you're blaming yourself for probably committing a crime in a previous life with your daughter. My heart tightens when I think about that feeling. The questions “why my child” and “why am I like this” make us suffer deeply, precisely because we cannot find answers. Because of the depth of that suffering, we may just hastily conclude that “some kind of punishment has been imposed.”
Even with the same words, there are various interpretations and ways of taking them. There are differences between the various sects of Buddhism, and this is also a characteristic of the purpose. Being taught by the Jodo Shinshu sect, I don't think of this as “some kind of punishment.” Nor do I think “the events that befell me were caused by the work of my previous life.” In the first place, events in this world are intricately intertwined with many conditions such as oneself, others, society, and the environment, including things we are unaware of (= innumerable), and each result is born.
There are things that are more important to Hachi-san now than searching for the cause. It's about carefully recalling the days my daughter lived. If it's right after parting ways, it may be difficult, but please start “remembering” your daughter little by little. Please take a look back at what your daughter was happy about, what she enjoyed, and the memories she left behind with the bees.
Hachi-san is by no means alone. A Buddha named Amida Nyorai watches over this helpless sorrow and unanswered suffering itself, and never abandons him, and lives with us. Also, the Buddha called Amida Nyorai is the Buddha who rescues our daughter and us from a world of suffering. If you become a parent, Hachi-san's sadness and sorrow won't suddenly disappear, but a Buddha called Amida Nyorai will show you a path where even Hachi can live with sadness and tenderness.
Everyone at Hasunoha is supporting Hachi-san's future. Also, please feel free to contact us at any time.