I'm worried that I might have run over someone

Hello.
It's been a bit difficult lately, and I wanted someone to listen to it, so I asked for it.

Recently, while driving a car, when the distance between pedestrians and cyclists gets closer, it doesn't feel like a collision or make a flashy sound,

“Huh? I may have run over the person just now.” I suddenly feel uneasy.

At that time, even if it was a cry, there was no sound or feel, so even if I thought there was no way I was being hit, I gradually became anxious, and I only thought about that during work, and finally, during this time,

I thought, “That person on the bicycle in the morning might have bumped into them,” so I contacted the police.

I had the police take a look at the TV recorder, etc.

“The camera is only on the front, so I honestly don't understand even if I look at this much, but there aren't any noticeable scratches on the car, and I personally don't think it hit.”

I was told.

A few days later, I was relieved to see that the cyclist was pedaling the bicycle well.

However, even after that, when they passed an oncoming car on a narrow road at night, the person walking the dog stopped before that, but they weren't hugging them, so maybe they came over here when they passed by and ran over them,

I gave way to pedestrians this morning too, but is there a big pillar on that sidewalk? Something like that was standing, and I couldn't see the pedestrians for a moment, and since they didn't come at all, I was wondering if they had turned from behind my car, and moved forward a little bit.

Then a pedestrian came out of the pillar, and wow! I'm so surprised.

However, after that, the pedestrians left without incident.

But wasn't it a bit of a hit? Or, it becomes unbearable due to anxiety due to anxiety.

After that, I checked the drive recorder many times, but it didn't work at all, and even though it was a group of two, there was no reaction, and they passed by.

It's been like this lately, and my anxiety about driving is very strong.

While I'm at work, I check over and over again to make sure I haven't made any mistakes...

How can I fit in...
Please give me your wisdom.

4 Zen Responses

When it comes to driving, I think there is no choice but to drive slowly and carefully. It is safe to keep a distance (about 1 meter) so that you can confirm that you cannot see with your eyes either pedestrians or cyclists. Be sure to leave a distance of about 2 meters from people and people who are walking dogs. If the oncoming car light makes it difficult to see, stop and wait until the oncoming car passes. Use a beam when there are no oncoming vehicles. Everyone is uneasy if they can't confirm safety with their eyes. Instead of driving while praying that you won't get hit, drive carefully at a distance where you definitely won't hit.
When it comes to a job, it depends on the job description, but for particularly important jobs, I think it's a good idea to ask your boss or colleagues if this is OK. Everyone makes mistakes inadvertently.
There is no need to force a cautious personality, so it's good to use it wisely.

There is also a possibility that you are unwell

For example, there is also a possibility that the condition of the brain and nerves is getting worse, such as anxiety disorder (anxiety disorder).
I think it's okay to talk to a medical institution once.
If it is caused by poor physical condition, physical physical care is necessary, isn't it?
In Buddhism, the mind is considered impermanent.
Thoughts and feelings come and go from moment to moment, then disappear and change.
Let's think that anxiety and worries are a phenomenon that will surely pass.

Please don't worry

I read it.
It makes you very anxious that you might have been hit by a car. I feel that I can really understand your feelings of anxiety and concern. I accept your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
There are times when I think so too. Also, there are things to worry about, so there were times when I checked the drive recorder.

Actually, when you hit it, you feel a very loud sound or shock. Something like that happened the other day. So please take care of your sight, hearing, and senses. What's more, there's a TV recorder, so it's probably almost covered.
Please don't worry.

Please try to drive safely first, then please take good care of the things and people around you and drive compassionately.

I sincerely pray that you can continue to live every day with care, compassion, and safety for the things and people around you, and that you will be able to help each other and live a happy life together. And I wholeheartedly support you. We wholeheartedly agree

Organize situations objectively by dividing them into facts and feelings. Acknowledge the facts that are okay

When the distance between pedestrians and cyclists gets close, it can be scary, isn't it? As a driver, that sense and attentiveness are important, aren't they?

However, “anxiety” is increasing, such as worrying forever, becoming unbearable due to anxiety, even consulting with the police, not being able to calm down during work, and being afraid of driving. I'm worried.

As negative thoughts and anxiety increase, fatigue and fatigue accumulate.
It is also an important choice to consult a specialist without taking it alone.

And let's break it down into facts and feelings. It's unsettling, but in reality, you didn't cause an accident. Let's sort out the situation objectively. Let's take the reassurance of “it's fine.”

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