I lied for the sake of my own good looks

　Good evening. If this is your first phone call with someone of the opposite sex, then you'll be nervous. What's more, they're women, so I don't think it's impossible to say that defensive things come out of their mouths is one of their cuteness.
However, although I'm already caught up, it's true that “lies call lies.” Justify the previous lie If I were a child, I would be lying one after another, and I could lose my trust.
However, I can imagine that there is a lot of deception (cheating) mixed in the matching system (which I'm not familiar with). so...
If you have a crush on him, all you have to do is reveal the seeds early.
How about preface it with “I'm sorry, I was actually nervous last time, and I did a few things that weren't true,” and then reveal it...
“I haven't had a boyfriend since middle school” is towards the end. That's because it's the part that leads to the conclusion “that's why I was nervous.”
In response, if the other party feels “this person lies a lot, it's suspicious,” it won't develop. However, we can escape the “swirl of lies” for now. On the other hand, there is also a possibility that they will say, “Yes, I'm glad you spoke honestly.” If you do that, your relationship may progress in a life-size situation.
Rather, what bothered me was that you thought “I can't be myself like this.” Being in the process of changing jobs, living at home, and not having had a lover since junior high school does not mean that your value as a person decreases.
However, at the moment, I don't know how much of the other party's story is true. If you're a grumpy person (unlike your impression of a phone call), there's a possibility that you're decorating yourself.
Well, “are you going to hell?” There is such a thing. That is currently undecided. Will I be able to live my whole life without lying at all from now on? If asked, there is nothing better than saying, “I will try not to do that as much as possible.” Even if you say “I take care of you,” and even if you really want to, there is a possibility that it won't suit you.
However... the lies that have been told should be settled as soon as possible. If you know, pay early. If you can take that action, your partner may also feel like “I, too, if that happens, I'll apologize as soon as possible to be like this kid.” I think that is one fruit of love.

Thank you very much for your consultation. You spent a very difficult day blaming yourself.

First of all, don't worry. What you've caught up with this time isn't a malicious lie that will trick or hurt your opponent. You'll never end up in hell.

In Buddhism, there is a teaching that admonishes lies called “false words”, but on the other hand, as there is a saying “lies are convenient,” everyone is a weak creature that protects themselves and puts up a small appearance in an attempt to look even a little better. With this experience, you must have realized that one lie will lead to the next, and as a result, “it will cause your own heart to suffer the most.” The fact that I experienced this sense of guilt and was able to reflect on it will itself be a major lesson for my future life.

As for how to get involved with your partner in the future, there are two paths.

If you're attracted to him and want to continue the relationship, gather up the courage and honestly confide at an early stage, “Actually, I was nervous and looked good, and said something different from the truth.” If you sincerely apologize, they will surely accept it.

On the other hand, if it's enough to think “if I block it, I'll hit a bee,” your feelings for him may surprisingly be about that. If you retreat, silent blocks will make your opponent uneasy. “I can't afford it now, and it has become difficult to continue communicating any further,” and then leaving after refusing to contact them for one word is their last desire.

Please use this experience to forge new relationships with you just the way you are from now on.

Worship
Engiji Temple Shakujo

I think there's a risk in speaking honestly about anything.
Certainly, there is false information, but I feel that it is a cute lie. It's the opposite of wanting to be thought of well for yourself, isn't it?

From now on, let's connect reality to confidence so that it is worth that lie. Otherwise, even if someone you'd like to meet shows up, it's probably hard to meet during job hunting.

Everyone lies about their romantic experiences. I don't think anyone can be honest. Also, it's better to stop people who ask about past relationships. Because they are people who care and compare.

Since when have you not had a lover? What, “I don't want to say it. You should reply “It's embarrassing.” It's a good man who doesn't ask questions like this.

You can continue to be good friends with people who have a good vibe without blocking things. Also, let's refine your own appeal so that you don't have to look good.

I read it.
You've lied to someone you've met, and you're really worried. I don't know the details about you or that person, but I really understand your thoughts.
I think I understand that you just lied about Eiichang. It's natural to want people to think even a little better about themselves. I understand you did that.
Nonetheless, it is also true that you have told a lie and are suffering.
Please try not to lie next time. And if the timing is right, please correct the lies I told.
There are various relationships between people, so please stay in a sincere relationship.
I sincerely pray that you will be blessed with truly wonderful encounters and relationships from now on, while being in a sincere relationship with your loved ones, and that you will be able to live a happy and safe life from the bottom of your heart.
And I will support you from the bottom of my heart.