The doctor who made a medical mistake doesn't apologize and saves his life

I sincerely apologize for the difficult situation.
However, I dare say it because I am a different person.
People in every profession make mistakes.
Announcer chewing news doesn't affect people's lives, but doctors' mistakes affect people's lives.
However, if you are quickly charged with a crime because of that, no one will be afraid and will not be able to take up medical work, and as a result, lives that can be saved will not be saved.
That doctor didn't intentionally try to harm him either, so he had no choice but to give up.
Everyone has the worry of being lazy, and the worry of being lazy is an affliction of wanting to focus.
In other words, anyone can lose their concentration and make mistakes.
Unless you are someone who has overcome the worries of laziness by enlightening like a Buddha, your ability to concentrate is impermanent (always interrupted).
The other day, an elderly friend of mine underwent surgery. Since they are elderly, rehabilitation is not going well, and they seem to be struggling.
The surgery I underwent to get better made me feel rather weak. This is different from medical mistakes, but it is a daily occurrence that treatment involves risks.
In Buddhism, the anguish of anger is thought to be the cause of worry, suffering, and stress.
In order for you to live a happy life, it is effective to abandon anger and resentment and have bright and positive thoughts, specific thoughts that look at what is left over what you have lost, and find what you want to do in what you can do.
Of course, you won't be like that anytime soon.
However, since the mind is also impermanent, anger and hatred may change at some point.
Losing focus and making mistakes is also impermanent, and it's also impermanent to feel unhappy.
There is probably no choice but to stop the flurry of delusions, distractions, and thoughts about the past, the future, myself, and others, and do the specific work in front of me.
You don't have to do delusional distractions, but there are so many other things in life that I have to do...
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Spreading medical errors on the internet might be one way.

I can tell you how much suffering you are facing in the midst of deep despair and regret. The unreasonableness of losing an important career or health, not being legally saved by desperate investigations, and being ridiculed by doctors who should have saved people is probably a deep wound that cannot be expressed in words at all.

In Buddhism, one type of suffering that people cannot avoid is “grudge and bitterness (suffering).” This is the suffering of being involved with someone who feels resentment or hatred. It's natural that you can't forgive someone who has hurt you unreasonably. However, continuing to burn that flame of “anger” and “hatred” in your heart will burn none other than your own mind and body, and further increase your suffering.

Doctors who run for self-preservation and laugh at patients' pain are terribly immature, miserable, and pathetic beings as human beings. A way of life that misrepresents one's conscience and is insensitive to the pain of others will invariably cloud that person's soul. Therefore, there is no need for you to bear the judgment against him until your own heart is worn out.

The most effective way to escape from this suffering is to “walk away” from the other person, both mentally and physically. No matter what, you are not satisfied, and one way is to consult with another lawyer again in search of a legal solution. However, the most important thing is “don't let that doctor control your precious life any more.”

What has been taken away is too big, and you may be reluctant right now, but please give top priority to taking care of your own mind and body. I sincerely hope that someday the day will come when I can quietly walk away from the flames of hate and walk peacefully towards a completely different and new purpose of life.

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There are places where the medical industry is protected to some extent, and even if mistakes are made, doctors do not approve of them by Zettai. Medical mistakes happen all over the place every day. I got this and that wrong treatment too. bleeding, wrong x-ray. My child's face was hurt during childbirth at the obstetrics and gynecology department in Iriso, Sayama City, Saitama Prefecture.
I've also saved a video. “It's a common occurrence” and the like have reopened. Shinto and Buddha would forgive me, but I won't forgive him. Even now, scars remain on my child's face, and I was tormented by questions from children the other day as well. I don't know if that's the cause, but I also have a disability.
No matter what kind of job it is originally, patients, doctors, shops, and customers should be honest in terms of humanity. Nor is it bothersome. You can make claims and claims in a dignified manner. Apart from that, money isn't the goal either. A sincere apology and admission of guilt is a matter of course as a human being. It's a matter of course, but what they don't do is protect the physicians' lives. Because I don't want to admit it. It's something that can't be put on the doctor's side.
They often talk so nicely that they are not involved in such stories. I think that's a lie. It's true that I have a grudge and there's nothing I can do about it, and this is the only one that keeps on feeling bad. You know that a long time ago, right?
Defend the perpetrators of anything and everything in Japan today, disdain the victims in the name of diversity, come on! I'm sick of it! A strong attitude is absolutely necessary.
Most people in the world are under-informed, naive, and don't think anything about a better way to be. So most of them are stupid, naive, and want to stay in ZONE in a conservative way, so even when we talk, most people don't listen because they seem to be listening to someone else's affairs.
If a lawyer doesn't deal with it either, let's take videos on your own, keep proper records, and insist on what you should insist on.
It is true that the doctor made a medical mistake on you even though he cured other patients.
If you're doing something good for others, there's no way you can be forgiven for the mistakes you made.
If you can't forgive, you can raise your voice to the world through SNS. But that doesn't mean what you've lost will be taken back. However, for the sake of your own dignity, I think it is important to have the attitude that you will do what you need to do without the other person's sincere response or apology.
There are other doctors. I'm rooting for you.

It's frustrating. That's unforgivable.
How difficult is it to admit medical errors? Still, you fought. I didn't approve it, but it was clear that it was a doctor's mistake or inappropriate act.

And yet, the attitude towards you suffering from sequelae...
As a doctor and as a person, you despise life, don't you?
It makes me cry because I'm frustrated wondering how to maintain the feeling that I've been robbed of my life.

I think I was moved by a lawyer,
・Medical Safety Support Center (consultation on medical complaints, concerns, etc.)
・Medical Accident Study Group (Association of Lawyers Working on Medical Accident Damage Relief)

It seems that the initial consultation is free, so why don't you discuss the factual results of the action with an attorney?
I hope it will help you look forward, even a little bit.

Aya, I saw your consultation.
I painfully understand the unspeakable feeling of not being able to hit anywhere.

As a matter of fact, even though this side won, I even gave up on a civil trial where I cried and cried just because the dishonest opponent was good at running away when suing.

An emotion where you've lost all of your career, social status, and social trust, and you don't know where to direct the brunt of this feeling. I can't tell anyone. No one can understand it. It's a horrible vortex that happens in life.

The lawyer also said, “The other party's negligence is certain, but I will apply it to evidence sufficient to sue.”
As for me, if you ignore my position as a monk, I'm still not convinced about that. My family's lives were in danger. My life was saved, but I have a first-degree physical disability.

When we're alive, unreasonable things happen.
However, sanctioning an opponent (doctor) takes a tremendous amount of time and money.
Even if that's not the case, the victims are even more exhausted during the illness. This is because the brain is controlled by hatred towards the other person.
That hate comes back to us, not our partner. Aren't you frustrated?
You don't want to lose anything more, do you?
If you don't let go, it will fall apart.

We still want to live our lives, don't we?
Don't you want to continue living while having your heart controlled by such an absurd opponent?
Hating someone violently (hate) is a state where that person lives in your heart for a long time and continues to pour energy into it. This is also a strong obsession.

There is a term for equality between relatives and relatives.
I'm not saying that you should forcibly forgive your partner, but it's one of the ultimate wisdom for self-salvation, where you first free your own heart from that suffering by separating this hatred (obsession) for your partner from your own heart and returning it to a neutral (equal) state.

There is no going back to the past and results. But we will live from now on.
If that's the case, we must first save our current self.
I think the first thing to do is to be freed from hate.

Please contact Hasunoha again when ready.

Let's make steady progress while trying not to be a burden on our own mind or money.

Let's think about it together. Aya is not alone.
I also sincerely pray that Aya will feel even a little refreshed