Feelings for a boyfriend who treats you

Then it's a good idea to save only the amount you plan to pay and use it for the two of you when you get married in the future.
You should keep your savings in secret with him.

I think you won't have to feel ashamed.
It's your turn to become a goddess so you can use it when needed and when you're in a pinch.

Your honesty in taking on household chores and proposing a split is amazing. I was impressed by your attitude of caring for others even though you were resting on your own.

The reason he's trying to pay full price for appliances isn't because he doesn't look at you as an equal. It is his own deep expression of affection, such as “I want to support my loved ones” and “I want to make them even a little easier,” and it is a form of kindness. Men sometimes feel great joy in helping and being relied upon by the women they love. If he were someone who wouldn't give up to “fully halving up to the unit of 1 yen,” I think he would feel a little nervous as a future partner.

In Buddhism, there is a teaching called “worship (fuse).” There is something called “wagense (wagense)” that responds to “financial aid” that gives material things with a warm smile and a sense of gratitude. If he supports you with financial security, you can fill his heart with a smile or words like “Thank you, I can really count on him.”

Honestly receiving the favor of a loved one is also a great expression of affection. Please don't despise yourself, look ahead to a warm future, and relax and surrender to his reassuring kindness.

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Engiji Temple Shakujo

Are they living together? I wonder if it's his place of residence too.
If that's the case, I wonder if you're doing housework in general...
I think it would be an equal for him to cooperate, and I think it would be an equal relationship not only to split the money, but also to feel free to give opinions and suggestions about life and relationships with him.

Rather than saying thank you, it makes you feel disgusted. That feeling is important too, isn't it? Oh “I want to keep my money in order. You can trust an equal relationship. Why don't you tell them, “That's because I care about you.” Being able to get along on an equal footing is important, isn't it?

We don't need to lie to the people we become family members.
So, if we talk honestly about those feelings, it would be better if we didn't lie to each other.
A relationship where you can't properly talk about that kind of thing can't be a family. An eternal stranger. Thank you for your eternal refraining.
If you do something that you don't want to do, someday you'll be held back yourself.
Humans should be equal to their partners, and when human rules are too strict, life becomes rather difficult due to that person's rules.
It is natural for men and men to protect women.
It may be said that it is an old idea or not, but for women's happiness, it is natural for men in the world to support the home, support housework, support the home, and support the household budget with dedication, sincerity, and sincerity. This is not what feminists call “be like this with men,” but it is a natural form of what men should be. That's because male and female animals also have different roles.
I have many ideas, so this is one of my personal diverse opinions.
However, women in today's world are not Minato girls, but there are also people who are too satisfied with men's good intentions, etc., or that it is natural for them to do so from an ego or laid-back standpoint, but that is simply egoism.
Domestic people are not like that; they are good partners and people who can become good partners and good families by supporting each other, so conversely, if they are stingy men (people who take it for granted), they are also in charge even after that.
The reason you feel complex, inferior, and alienated is because you compare.
Thank you 💗 and you can be content. You can't choose a person's birth. Each other person's family and upbringing is an individual, and everyone is a different person 👽 Everyone is an alien. Everyone is getting married internationally. Everyone marries, companions, and intercultural exchanges between each other, Tenjo Tenka, and Yuiga Dokuson. If you get married to someone from Africa or North Sentinel Island, you can't compare those things anymore, or rather, it's almost impossible to compare them. Absolute individuality. Absolute diversity and uniqueness. So you are you who you are. I'm ashinchi. Your upbringing is your upbringing. My upbringing is also my upbringing. It's almost impossible to absolutely compare today's encounters, today's blessings, and today's experiences from person to person. It's impossible. So you should graduate from comparison today. It's a good idea to keep money for children who will eventually be given.

Thank you, Ai-sama, for your consultation. My name is Otetsu. Your boyfriend's worries are important, aren't they? Please take care of yourself first.
It's a conflict between my worries with my boyfriend this time, Ai's sincerity, and my sense of independence that I want to stand on my own feet. I feel miserable about being given money, and I definitely don't think too much about it.
◎ What are your values or your boyfriend's worth?
◆ There is absolutely no need to feel inferior about not being able to give money. This is because Ai-sama has already given him a lot more value than money.
It is often said in the world that “it is natural for men to buy meals,” and there is a reason for this. For her date with him, she went to the hairdresser beforehand, chose clothes, put on makeup, and invested more of her “time” and “money” to make him happy. Men simply express their gratitude for their invisible girlfriend's efforts, time together, and smile in the form of “visible money (treat).”
Even while Ai-sama is sick, the sight of her doing housework hard when she has time to spare and making an effort to live a better life is the best gift for him called “irreplaceable healing and energy.” He just wants to give it back.
◆ What he is trying to present a dishwasher or drum-type washing machine is exactly the practice of “alms” in Buddhism. I don't want to create a hierarchical relationship; it's just pure compassion to “reduce the burden on those you love and make you smile.” If he stubbornly refuses, he will feel lonely, saying “he didn't receive his love.”
Receiving the other person's warm feelings with a big smile saying “thank you” is also a great form of compassion that completes the other person's kindness.
◆ If you really feel disadvantaged, “give back” something other than money.
I'll use the time and physical strength I've saved thanks to easier housework to make one dish he likes, and I'll listen carefully to his work story with a smile. This is an “equal” enough relationship.
Being called a “good boyfriend” by people around me is proof that Ai-sama has the appeal of being able to do his best. Don't underestimate yourself and practice indulging in his kindness little by little. That's all for me!
Gassho