Boyfriend pretending to be single

Even though I was planning to get divorced at the time, the period I met and been in a relationship with you was an adulterous relationship. His behavior was dishonest, wasn't it?

He is the cause of your suffering, so he is responsible.
I don't think I can trust him, but are we going to live together now?

Even if you're told that your capacity is over, you haven't slept or eaten at night. Let's tell him about that.

I don't know how to make a decision, do you? Let's think about the future together with him. If he's flustering right now, let's wait for a while.

I don't think you'll come up with an answer if you go through your worries alone. That's because it's about the future of the two of them. So just tell him about your physical condition. Then he'll care about you too.

There are probably things I think about him, but let's think about the future together. Let's rest your mind and live a regular lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with you. Let's ask him to respond sincerely.

For example, if a person assembling a toy car tightens one screw, the task of tightening a screw on a space rocket, and the work of tightening a screw on a missile that protects citizens, if they cut out only this 1 second of “doing the work in front of you,” they do the same thing.
For example, the process of signing a marriage registration and signing a divorce registration is the same.
A life where you can only do what you can do anyway.
Now, if you do what you can to the extent you can in this 1 second, think it's a successful life.
The Jodo sect explains that if anyone chants “Namu Amida Buddha” and nembutsu, they can be reincarnated into the Pure Land of Paradise in the next life with Amida's power, which means that you and I will confirm a happy ending in your life.
If so, it's okay if you make a few mistakes or mistakes in this life.
You just need to relax, calm down, and do what you want to do and what you need to do at your own pace.
Well, the first thing I'm worried about is the cause of his divorce.
Also, if he's a decent man, he should continue to pay child support for his two children even if they get divorced.
My boyfriend is financially burdened until his two children graduate from college.
Conversely, a man who doesn't even pay child support has the worst personality.
Please make a decision based on that as well.

According to Buddhism, your lover is involved in two unjust acts: lying and having an affair.
What should be blamed even more in this case is that I kept lying to those of you who are in a serious relationship that I am single.
The fact that they hum at a common acquaintance is also extremely vicious.
I'm not talking about the level of forgiving or not forgiving.
Since I got divorced from my wife, it's not like I can dismiss it as a story that's already over.
Your lover is someone you don't trust at all, and even if they marry you, they'll do the same thing over and over again in the future.
It may be a tough decision for you, but I recommend breaking up right away.
I understand your concern that you don't want your mother to worry when she is fighting an illness, but one day the truth will be conveyed to your mother.
If your mom knew the facts now, she would definitely be against marriage, thinking about your future.
I'm sure your friends are the same.
You may feel temporarily embarrassed or miserable by confiding the facts, but let them help you here.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, the victim.
Note, you can claim alimony against a lover who had a relationship with you by hiding that they are a married person.
Your lover probably needs some kind of discipline, but it's up to you whether or not to do it.

I saw your consultation, Min-san.

The concealment of the facts was discovered after both the date of naturalization and cohabitation were decided.

It's such a shock that my heart stops, isn't it?

When you feel like you've been taken off a ladder by someone you believed in, I think it's a feeling that really can't be expressed in words.

I was also scammed twice in my 20s and once in my 30s.

I think there are various patterns.

One is that since we met, I didn't want to lose you, so I had no choice but to shut up.

The other is conviction.
(There are now quite a lot of married people, both men and women, who don't wear rings.

Talking about divorce, especially when there are children, is really difficult,

Worst of all, everyone can also claim alimony from their wife.

It was said that the divorce was confirmed, but it is better if you properly show me documents such as a copy of the family register.
This is regardless of whether you believe him or not. I'm talking about sincerity.
In order not to get bogged down any more, let's ask them to show me a copy of the family register.
(In my case, I was told I was divorced, but I wasn't actually divorced.)

What he's telling everyone about his divorce, moving, flustered at work, and over capacity
“?” I feel it.

No matter what kind of situation he is in, what he must value the most right now is everyone.

The fact that you can't take proper care of that area

Is it really possible to overcome so many events after marriage
I feel it.
Also, they should be properly told about the cause of the divorce. Is everyone the cause, or is there a different reason?

I think it's hard to say about that, but if you get bogged down later after enrolling, it's already too late.
You won't be able to move.

It's hard to say that your family is also fighting an illness, isn't it?

It's natural that I still can't think about anything right now.

Why don't you take him out of your mind for a moment?

I feel it's important to slow down and think first.

This is because I feel like it won't go in the right direction, even if I make a decision based on my current state of mind.

Even if you rebuild yourself first, then calm down, and then think about your current problems, it won't be too late for a long life.

Please think about it again.
If you get lost again, please contact Hasunoha.
Let's all think about it.