Why do serious people have more pain

The Buddha said.
“Don't look at what others have done. Look at what you did.”
There's no need to compare yourself to other companies.
The grass next door is blue.
One day, the Buddha went to the alms, preached the Dharma, and went home.
The alms were empty.
The hungry Buddha thought.
“Let's make today's meal the joy of preaching the law.”
Let's live our lives satisfied with what we've done.
Even if it's a rough road.

I read your consultation.

> People who are careless about people's hearts, belittle someone they don't like, or get cut off without hesitation

The fact that they seem to be living happily may actually be different just because they “see.”

Surface and internal reality are different. People who are complicated are not so easy to judge.

It might seem like they're having fun. Even so, they may have something they can't finish unless they show it to them.

Of course, that doesn't mean you can approve hurting others. But people who behave that way also have relationships that make them do it. There are countless backgrounds beyond that person's imagination.

If you think so, you can't take people lightly. It's something that can't be easily determined.

> Forgive your partner and try to love them

If it's painful, it may be because they're looking for something in return. Maybe you're not convinced that your thoughts aren't bearing the fruit you want.

Serious... even if you look serious, it's difficult to stay true to your inner world.

That's why I want to live my life based on the Buddha's wishes, which are the true function directed at all people.

I read it.
I read your thoughts. You're wondering why serious people have more pain. I feel like I understand very well what you think. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
As you said, people who do selfish things without worrying about people or people who hurt people without suffering are living peacefully without suffering, yet it seems that people who treat people with a sincere attitude don't have a hard time. I think you're right. Serious people have a sense of self-blame, are driven in, have painful feelings, and sometimes take their own lives.
As you said, I think the world is very unreasonable.
Maybe it would be easier to just leave people alone and live with a calm face.

What do you think when you say that? What do you think about hurting people without thinking about their feelings and living a life bothering people by only doing selfish things?

After all, I think everyone has their own way of life. I think there are ways to live a good life, whether it's important, and what is desirable to cherish in life.

Please consider the way of life that is really important to you and live your life by choosing one.

I sincerely pray that you will walk a path of life that is truly important to yourself in the future, and that you will be able to live through the life you have been given rich in your heart.
And I wholeheartedly support you. We wholeheartedly agree

You've been in an unreasonable situation to the extent that it makes you think so, haven't you?
I think they're still traumatized.

They don't think about their surroundings, act the way they want, and don't even try to notice the other person's suffering or sadness. The world enjoyed by people who can hurt, commit violence, and laugh is nothing but a lie. I doubt that such a person would ever find true joy or happiness.

I hear your cry with deep sorrow. It's really hard.
I want you to cut out lives and stories and not despair as if everything is over.

You have a deep sense of kindness. I want them to have a broader perspective than the world they have lived in. I want you to keep your face up until the person you care about finds you. I want you to laugh in the midst of true joy and happiness.

While the Buddha's light is arriving, this is how I came across Hasunoha. I hope I love you and live for you. You are walking properly on the path shown by the Buddha.