I'm obsessed with “The Virgin Fantasy” and can't really fall in love!!

　What should I do to be able to do it? I'd like to know too.

For now, I think it's about looking at women as women with a personality, not objects of sexual desire to be licked or inserted.

So what do you want to do after all? ('・ω・`)

If you don't like people who have ex-boyfriends, and you don't like people who don't have ex-boyfriends, then I think that's enough.
No matter how I thought about the answer, there were no abductions, so I'll go one by one as appropriate from above

> are you making me lick such a dirty body??!!
If you don't want to lick it, you don't need to lick it, and isn't it okay if you don't lick it...
Perhaps the fact that thoughts have taken the lead up to this point means that I think Uchibenkei is in a delusion, not even that part, as a situation, so I recommend moving forward in two dimensions.
If you do eroge or something, I think it will solve your ideal situation because your ideal partner will surely be there

> I don't like real “virgins” either! It probably hasn't even been developed... and it seems cumbersome to handle...
I think it would be good to do erotic after all, this conflict will probably be resolved too

> I want to insert it!! I want to be popular!! I want women like this to be innocent, but in reality, that's not the case
After all, there is only eroge anymore, the power of modern technology is amazing, and it seems like there are machines linked to games, and you know that there aren't any in reality, right? Look, please do eroge after all

> Is it normal for me to be like this??
Whether it's normal or abnormal is determined by what yardstick, so I can't measure it, but in reality, it's probably a minority, and as an erotic gamer, there's no possibility of majority, so there's no choice but to eroge

> What should I do to become popular???
I'm not going to say if I know that technique or not, but even if I do, I won't tell you, I'll keep it to myself ('・ω・`)
Hint: I'm not popular

By the way, I don't do erotic games, but according to erotic gamers, it's about saying “beyond reality,” so please keep your expectations in your heart and immerse yourself

my source!! Sama
Nice to meet you, my name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

Although they have desires for women, they have an imposing contradiction where they feel dirty if they have been in a relationship with a man before, and they feel troublesome if they don't have a relationship.

Suddenly, I remembered the Buddha's story.
At one point, Buddha is pressured to marry his daughter by a father who has a daughter who is reputed to be the most beautiful woman in the world. The Buddha is a person with excellent physical intelligence, so his father probably wanted to welcome him as his son-in-law.

However, Buddha says it's pretty tough, saying, “From my point of view, whether humans look beautiful or not, the underside of a sheet of thin skin is just a skin bag filled with feces, blood, and pus.” For the Buddha, who turned down all his worries, it probably meant that being beautiful had no meaning.

my source!! There are things that are close to Mr.'s senses (^_^;)
No matter how beautiful a woman is, if she has been in a relationship with a man in the past, there may have been acts that your man does not want. Even if I didn't have one, I went to the bathroom, got sweaty, and was chewed by my dad when I was little.

Why don't you stop worrying about women here and aim for enlightenment?
If he becomes a high priest who has attained enlightenment, he is popular with grandmothers, and it seems that the main character in Kamen Rider these days is the son of a temple, so he's also popular with little kids.

kidding (?) Aside from that, let's get back to the point.
my source!! I think that her problems are caused by excessively biased thoughts. In Buddhism, there is a teaching called the “middle way,” which is not good about being biased between the two extremes. In the thank-you column, “Shouldn't humans seek purity up to the point of being pure?” However, seeking extreme purity from women is biased, and focusing too much on the past is also biased.

It may be difficult because of your personality, but why not think about it so that you can have the feeling that you “want to accept all the people you fall in love with” rather than “I want to like someone who is innocent.”

★ Postscript
Thank you so much for your quick thank you.
Try to take it seriously. I wish you all the best.

I thought, honestly. That's because there's a possibility that people like you will ask for a relationship.
Well, that's rabbits also horns, for example.
“You're shining so brightly, but before, you've been held in someone's mouth, sometimes lightly held up your teeth, ticked, and licked right? huh? “This spoon bastard” or something
“It's completely pure white and doesn't have a single blemish, and it seems so clear, but last night you rubbed with someone, and you were taking that guy's sweat and everything else, right? don't be silly! The sheet bastard at this hotel” or something
“What is this pale smell or mellow smell. Even where it moves, it's jittery, tough, and inflexible. it's a little tough when you put it in, isn't it? What's more, haven't they been tested and thrown away by others a lot until now? Protected by thin paper, it was like, “You're the first to open this veil!” “These leather shoes” or something
Don't you think that way? What about toothbrushes and stuff? What about shoebellas? What about straps? What are the buttons for automatic doors What about digital camera trial products at stores?
I feel quite paralyzed around that point, myself. Probably because otherwise I wouldn't have lived.

appending
I saw “Thank You.”
Hmm. It's not about “treating women as things.” You yourself quoted “compare a woman to a car” in the thank you column, so I wanted to point out the half-hearted nature of your “clean habit.” And since reality is already only possible to live half-heartedly, why don't you get out of your brain and live in reality? I wanted to say that. While saying “I want to lick” out of fear, they haven't actually acted, right? Haven't you ever drunk breast milk (of course, when you were a baby)? Or maybe there's something tactile about it? I was a little worried about that.

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

In Buddhism, it is sometimes explained that “the state of all things and things is like an illusion.”

Illusions are, of course, illusions, but reality is actually “like an illusion.”

The fact that it has no substance or is not made up of independence is called “empty.”

Of course, even if it's “empty,” it's not “emptiness” or “absolute nothlessness” where there is nothing.

Certainly, both you and Boo exist like this now, and there are targets to lick.

However, this state of affairs is called “luck,” where it depends on others, such as causality (cause or condition), etc., and it also changes in various ways depending on others.

Since an entity formed by others and changes, and something that does not change forever and ever, something that exists independently cannot be seen, and even if you try to capture that entity or something that exists independently, you cannot capture it, so it is as if it were an illusion or a dream.

Your life, you, and your target all change in an “auspicious” way. Wanting and having to be this way for things to change doesn't always apply.

In love and marriage, I think it would be important to be a partner who can help, support, supplement, share, and overcome life together when they are accepting various changes in each other while accepting various changes in each other.

I think it would be nice if a good causal relationship could be arranged in order to meet such a partner.

I pray for good deeds.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho

Hello.

I think there are many people who have experienced being swayed by “women” or “romance,” and that they have had various thoughts in their heads, and that they have experienced confusion.
Therefore, the act of worrying about women is by no means abnormal.

Speaking of which,
The “first” rice and vegetables harvested that year are offered to the Buddha
There used to be a custom called that.
(Although there are few these days)
But that doesn't mean that only the first one is offered to the Buddha,
There is also an aspect where Buddhism has been handed down due to the custom of everyone receiving hand-me-downs from the Buddha.

So it's my source! If you want a relationship with a woman,
Forget the painful feelings of the past up until now!
Go out with me thinking you've been reborn!
How about that mindset?

Humans are lonely creatures that can't live alone.
I want someone to reset my grief.
Not only do you think with your head,
I feel that stepping into a relationship where people are licked is likely to break the status quo.

Once you step in, the world you live in changes depending on how to handle “lick.”
“Are you sluggish! It's a bad imitation!”
You won't be popular if you sow the seeds of a fight called that.
More than that, “the gentle feeling of being able to lick each other's wounds”
I think the future popularity period will be determined by whether or not you can have one.

It takes courage to take a step forward,
I hope it's helpful.

Incidentally, the life span of cells is short. There is less chance that it is the same as saliva or semen.
Therefore, I think it is more likely that you will meet a woman whose cells have been reborn due to metabolism under the skin.

I also wish for the future that my Gensen-san will have more happiness.