No matter how much I try to change my way of thinking, it won't change...
I don't know how to do it.
Everyone but me doesn't seem happy.
I know that's not the case, and I'm just impatient that I have to change.
I feel depressed and can't be kind to everyone around me.
People around you are always kind and smiling and doing your best.
Every time I'm told this, it seems like I'm not who I am.
I don't know what's painful anymore.
I'm sorry for the lack of organization.
I have to change... It's amazing just to think so.
The word “no good” means daring to take a detour and look at your own base or standing position.
You don't have to be impatient.
Let's stop.
You'll be able to see your feet and things you haven't seen until now.
Isn't it okay to just relax and unwind?
Let's take the power out of our shoulders.
Are you reflexively comparing yourself to people close to you? The reason we fall into complexes and self-loathing is that we compare ourselves to others. Aren't the people around you shining brightly? It's a mass of complexes, so praise from other people doesn't come right in. First, don't compare your actions to others. Also, don't worry about the eyes around you. Maybe you don't care about the eyes of people around you when you do something? Also, don't you care about speculations? I wonder if I'm glad I said that? What does that person think of me? Let's stop living a life of worrying about people's speculations here and now. Don't overthink it. It takes effort not to think too much. It will change the way you have cultivated over the years, so be prepared for 2 or 3 years. To put it bluntly, you haven't put in enough effort. It's dark because I'm immersed in my unhappy self.
I always make an effort to feel better. It's a dream to have a bright and enjoyable life right from the start. If the weather clears up, today will be a great day! When it rains, it becomes moist and the vegetables are moisturized. When it snows, the snowy landscape is beautiful! I'm constantly reinventing my negative image into a positive one. Over time, the smile you made will surely change to a real smile, and of course you will become a person loved by everyone, and of course by yourself. You'll be truly happy. That's always the case, so try it out. You're a really kind person, so you definitely have to be happy. I want them to be happy. I sincerely wish you happiness. Jōkō-ji
Doramika
Nice to meet you, my name is Dateryuho.
I think a quick story is necessary now
I'll be happy to answer.
I was in such a state too
Things that end up like Petit Panic
There are occasional ones.
At times like that
“I'll write down the thoughts in my head about the current situation in my notebook”
I do that all the time.
You can't write anything neatly, can you?
It's like they also ignored the lines on the notebook
It's like writing it out like writing it out.
So, until the pen stops
After writing
If you look at that notebook
My current situation
You'll be able to look at it slightly calmly.
Information that cannot be written in sentences
I'm telling you all of them on YouTube ^^
The “Happiness Series” in the video
It might be a hint
Please take a peek when you have free time ^^
http://bit.ly/1JXVj41
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Trouble was born
disappeared again...
It may be painful
To the monk who comes to Hasunoha
While consulting
Let's move forward little by little ^^
The painful thing right now is to believe in your own power, saying that you are no good
Since it's not there, I think it's because it's based on self-denial.
If you deny yourself, your true power will also be hidden
I'll put it away.
You may not be able to truly accept it even if you say it in its current state
No, but Doramika isn't bad at all, the exact opposite
That's it.
It's not a bad thing, it's a wonderful, wonderful, true self
I think there is a difficult situation right now in order for them to notice it themselves
I think so. If I don't have a difficult situation right now, I'll be my true self
I don't think we'll have a chance to meet
Meeting your true self. This is Buddhism.
In the words of the founder's side, “You should stop looking.”
Seeing is a point of view, idea, or concept, good or bad
This must be the case, an assumption, etc.
Please leave them, those ways of looking at them and making them mean
It becomes a filter, making it impossible to see the truth,
So let go of them and see the essence,
That's it.
Specifically, in everyday life, good or bad, profit and loss,
Get away from the clean and dirty, just do your best, just what's right in front of you
It means working hard. It's zazen or public planning
It's exactly the same as what's called.
It's just that, by working hard, I can see the real situation
Also, notice for yourself what is important to you
I think I can go.
The following seems logical, but I hope it will be helpful for something
I thought about it.
Mr. A fell into the ditch. Everyone says it's dirty
The engacho has been locked.
Mr. A is certainly described as dirty.
But is Mr. A really dirty?
What is dirty is what is attached around Mr. A's body.
Neither Mr. A himself nor Mr. A's body are dirty.
Incidentally, Mr. A's body is Mr. A's “body”
Mr. A himself is not that.
Mr. A's “body, appearance, abilities, thoughts, feelings, will,
Possessions... are in the category called Mr. A,
It's not Mr. A itself. everyone.
Mr. A is a thief.
Mr. A is a bad person. What do you usually say,
To be precise, Mr. A is the one who did a bad thing.
Mr. A itself is a place where good and bad things are pasted
It's not there. What is good and bad for Mr. A itself
There's no way to put it on. Because it's an invisible work and mind.
That's because it's life itself.