hasunoha

About living spirits

I didn't like my older brother because I grew up being discriminated against. I almost got pranked a few times when I was 16, and I confided in my parents, “I don't know!” I was told that I stopped sticking to the house.
My older brother is NEET and has been living on his mother's pension. (after my father passed away)
My mother has dementia, and since she wanted to live together, she said, “We don't live together to take care of my older brother!” He said, “It has nothing to do with my brother. I feel uneasy about myself, and I want to live with ○○-chan.” I was told that they fell and died while they were moving in order to live together.

When I asked the psychic for advice to see if there was anything left to say, my mother apologized. I also understand that he died. I was told that my older brother was possessed by an amazing spirit, and if left alone, he would commit suicide. I was told that when I took my older brother, what he possessed was a story about my living spirit and the snake.
When I lived with my older brother, things from the old days were revived and I couldn't take a bath or go to bed slowly, so we decided to live separately because we decided to work.
After kicking my older brother out to the psychic, he said, “You have a lot of misfortune. Forgiving people is also necessary, but you can't do it, so it doesn't matter anymore! My mother is crying.” I was told.
I have separated from my older brother, and now I live my life where my older brother comes to my new house on the weekend to get along. There are times when we talk peacefully and worry about living apart.
What should I do to avoid possessing living spirits?
What should parents do so they can go to heaven with peace of mind?

4 Zen Responses

Let the Buddha take care of your parents

 I'm sorry for your heartache that you seemed to have had a really painful experience.
It seemed very well endured. We've been able to live until now, so let's continue to survive together.
It's easy to worry about the “living spirits,” “snakes,” and “mischief.” That psychic said it unilaterally, so there is no need to consult with a psychic in the future. Let's say you didn't hear that kind of story.
But it's humans who get worried once they listen to it, right?
However, it is essential not to touch, leave things alone, and not worry about things you cannot do on your own.
Even monks are worried when someone says, “You will definitely die by the end of today.” At the stage where you say “No, eagles don't care about that,” it appears that they are already concerned.
Let's leave it alone. I saw the Buddha who said, “I took care of my worries together.” The Buddha is also what his parents look like now.
You can be bothered by the psychic's words... it just seems like the psychic has given up on facing you. That's why you, too, are a psychic and can abandon the words that person said.
You're kind when you think about your older brother who made you feel bad in the past. It's a family, so they can't be abandoned... it's bothersome, though.
You don't have to take on the hassle alone. Let's ask those around us, the Buddha, and our older brother to bear a little burden. Let's talk... we're brothers.
Also, there are many monks supporting you in Hasunoha...
 

Know your own feelings towards others

Good morning, thank you

Now, ghosts are things that manifest as feelings of envy, jealousy, anger, etc. towards others as hatred.
I don't think it's an impossible story when you think about what your older brother did to you and up until now.
However, it can be seen that you are trying to forgive your older brother and that you are working hard one step at a time for that, so aren't your feelings of hatred fading away?

However, if you have unavoidable misfortune, you will continue to send ghosts to someone else if you don't do anything about it, and your parents won't be happy either.

So what do you do to get rid of bad luck?

It means you treat your parents, relatives, friends, and acquaintances with a smile and sincerity
For example, put your hands on the Buddhist altar every day
Helping people in need
Every good act that makes others happy becomes one's own merit

One of the Buddha's disciples was a monk called Muren. There is a story that this person saw her deceased mother suffering in hell, asked the Buddha to teach her, and when she did her best for various people, her mother was saved from hell and became a Buddha.
Our eyes were also able to attain Buddhism together at this time.
I think you'll be convinced if you combine this with this story about losing your own misfortune, erasing ghosts, and praying for your parents to attain Buddhism.

At first, you'll feel bad about me or because it doesn't work... That disgusting feeling, the feeling that makes you stop, is also the true cause of misfortune. I think it is only when that feeling occurs that the effects up until now have come out, and that they have a strong heart that they are disturbing because they don't want to go away, and the path will naturally open up as you move forward.

There is no right or wrong with spirits. There is no life or death for spirits. Spirits are spirits. you are you.

Something called your ghost and something called a snake are for your older brother
Do you want to make sure you can't take hold of that ghost you are possessed by
Or that you are possessed by someone's ghost
Or maybe, I'm a little unsure.

In order for yourself to live a happy life, there is no choice,
The life of walking up with my older brother and inviting him on the weekend
Something is supposed to be bothersome for the basket itself
That's what I felt when I was listening to the story.

Let's start with one by one.
The fact that parents go to heaven in peace means
I myself think that what we think is presumptuous.

Will you send them to heaven?
Am I sending them to heaven?
Will someone send them to heaven?

It's nobody.
It's a “death trip” where the parents themselves set out with an eye on their own destination.

The only thing we are left with is the safety of that journey
I know it's my duty to pray.

No one knows when death will come.
No matter how you die, “death” is nothing but “death.”
Accidental death during preparation is no different between death and senility.
We are the ones who fear it, not you.

Conversely, I'm afraid of how to die, think of the deceased like an “evil spirit,”
Isn't there something that interferes with my own happiness? That thought is
It is nothing but the act of making the most deceased person “evil.”

The dead aren't demons. We who were left behind turned into “evil spirits”
They are turning it into a “good spirit.”

The same goes for ghosts.
What we create ourselves is a “ghost.”
It's fine if ghosts exist. What is invisible accounts for the majority
It's our world.
The question is whether you want to think of it as “good” or “bad.”

There is originally no such thing as right or wrong.

After standing there, look at your older brother and your parents
Let's take a look.

Spirits complicate matters.
If you look at things more honestly, you'll probably be able to see the problem.

Fearfully, it also seems that my older brother has some signs of a developmental disability.
In that area, you may be able to see a solution by consulting at a welfare facility etc.
I think so.
Why don't you try what you can do now one by one?
After that, I'll leave it up to the invisible.

Practise for peace of mind

Hello. My name is Nichiyo.

You're living through a lot of trouble, aren't you?

Psychics seem to have all kinds of powers, which is amazing. However, if that power is not used to save people, it will be a meaningless crime making.

If it is really possible to determine the cause of what is happening now, I would like you to clearly tell me how to resolve it.

What you are today is due to your actions up until now. Whatever the situation, it all depends on your own actions. It's the same for my older brother.

If you have strong feelings and become a ghost and cause suffering to others, you should take a firm look at yourself and practice training so that you can restrain yourself. There is an image that ascetic practices are difficult, but there are also things you can do in everyday life.

Before asking a psychic, please come to the temple and talk to the monk from now on. I'm sure the monk who comes to Hasunoha will snuggle up to you.

You can only destroy your sins by apologizing for your bad deeds from the past.

I pray that you will take this opportunity to establish a relationship with the Buddha and that your future life will open up even more.

Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō

Gassho