The Sha Family
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.
I know that the monk's question about marriage is true.
Regarding the birth of children and children, we are dealing with each of the following questions.
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/tag/妻子帯
Of course, I don't know that Buddhism cannot move forward even if you have a child or a child. I think that is to the extent that some people advance in Buddhism more quickly if they don't bring a child or a child, and there are also people who don't.
Also, there is the sad reality of temples with strong hereditary practices in modern Japanese Buddhism. My son has also taken care of his wife, but even so, I would like to work hard to somehow advance Buddhism even a little bit.
Also, regarding the precepts, I have dealt with the following questions.
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/tag/戒律
Question “Thanksgiving and Buddha, Law, and Monks”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1009294659.html
“... Precepts, customs, and manners are like certain rules that should be followed, but it is as if the Buddha and disciples of later generations were appropriately set up to walk the path of Buddhism according to the times and the nature, situation, environment, etc. of the Sangha group, and on the contrary, it must not become something that becomes a prisoner, obsession, or obsession. Therefore, in the midst of changes in the times and circumstances of the times, I think it is essential to proceed as appropriate while sifting through what is necessary and what is unnecessary while making a firm assessment of what is the best way to walk through Buddhism. ・・”
Furthermore, I hope you can think of precepts as brakes to prevent runaway behavior. One of the convenient teachings of Buddhism is that “everything is originally already understood.” For example, if you misinterpret that convenient teaching, there is always a fear that you may end up not having to keep the precepts separately or that you are not encouraged to do good deeds. It also has a role in stopping the fear of such runaway behavior.
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho