The child suddenly has a fever after visiting graves
Hello. Today, I, my son, my parents, my sister, and my niece went to visit my parents' graves.
My grandparents are sleeping in the grave, and they go there about three times a year. I thanked my son for passing kindergarten and told them to take care of my daughter and parents, who tend to get sick, so that they can stay healthy.
Now, on to the main subject, my son, who had been doing well until now, suddenly became quiet, and when I touched it, he had a high fever. I fell asleep in the car, but it wasn't hot at all at the time, and I had a really sudden fever.
At the grave, it was hard trying so hard to soothe and hold my son who couldn't help but want to move in a lot of ways. My niece also went into the site of the tomb next door, and she said let's apologize because she went into another grave, and they put their hands together saying sorry. It was getting loud, so I'm worried that my ancestors got angry and had a fever... maybe the Buddha around me was angry...
Is there such a thing? Is there anything good to do? Is it better not to take children to visit graves in the first place? I want children to know the importance of putting their hands together with their ancestors...