Oka Takako.
I read your question.
I understand how you feel about your old man who passed away.
I am a Jodo sect monk.
Founder of the Jodo Shinshu
It is an open sect of people called Honen Shonin, who is the mentor of Shinran Shonin,
Both are “namuamidabutsu (nanmandabu)”
Praise and say to a Buddha called Amida
It's a sect that “leaves it up to you,” so I'll answer.
Who is Honen Shonen
before he died
One of my apprentices asks me this question.
“Until now, Master has preached and spread the teachings of Namuami Dabutsu Nembutsu, but he hasn't built any splendid halls or temples that could be called ruins (ruins). After your master has gone to the Pure Land, where should you turn it into a ruins (Yuiseki)?”
In response to that, Honen Shonin answered like this.
“There is no need for a splendid temple or temple like a ruins (ruins). If that hall or temple creates the illusion of being thankful, the teachings of Namuami Dabutsu Nembutsu, which I have been preaching throughout my life, will not spread. All of the places where Nembutsu sounds are my ruins (Yuiseki). Even if it's a small hut used by fishermen, the place where an amu amidabutsu makes a voice becomes a ruins (yuseki).”
I think of my grandfather and wish for peace of mind for myself.
There's nothing wrong with praying at a temple.
Rather, it would be nice to visit a temple for any reason.
I also go to Motoyama to pray.
However, it doesn't have to be the head temple.
You can do it in front of the Buddhist altar at Grandpa's house.
No, it doesn't matter where it is.
Anytime, anywhere, anyone.
It's a nenbutsu.
What is the meaning of Nembutsu
It's the “heart” of “now,” isn't it?
It's also great to pray at Nishi-Honganji Temple next year and put your hands together,
Will they be there next year or not? We don't understand each other.
Right now, I'll say it from my heart
It's Nembutsu.
The old man is listening to that voice.