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Hello, Mr. Shikako.

It's not bad to ask lots of questions. This is the site for that. If you feel like discussing it again anytime, feel free to post it.

Gassho

　Regarding various matters with my husband and parents-in-law, I think there are many parts that cannot be solved by Shikako alone, and my worries may also be deep.

As far as I can read the words and actions of my husband and parents-in-law in the question text, I feel that it is quite difficult to have a calm and calm discussion. It may be natural to get emotional, but the most troubling thing about letting your emotions run wild is myself. Please be careful not to let your emotions run wild for yourself or for your children, and calmly think about how to build your future life.

I was only able to answer it once, and I couldn't help much. Please come back. I wish you good health.

　Good evening.

That's the one I mentioned earlier.

Well, I've gone to a calligraphy class, and soon we'll have a year-end party at the calligraphy class.
At year-end parties, it is customary to write “one letter of the year for myself” and present it.

Looking back on what kind of year this year was, it first started with a flashy start where Daikichi appeared on the omikuji at the temple I went to for the first time. It was a type of lottery where a stick was taken out of a box, whether it was a hexagonal prism or an octagonal prism, and number 99 came out. It seems that there are several daikichi for the temple here, and the 99 daikichi is called “Tsukumono daikichi,” and it seems that it is the best daikichi of all the daikichi. The receptionist taught me while handing over an omikuji paper.
After that, there was a request for a missionary from the central district of Shizuoka prefecture. It's a role that comes in turn depending on age, but when asked, it's a role where people speak the law at that temple. I'm not good at speaking, so I'm having a very hard time, but I've managed to do my best.
In February, I saw Hasunoha's activities on a TV program, and I wanted to help, so I talked with the management and decided to join the group of responding monks.
When I joined, it was just beginning to be recognized, and there was a lot of questions. As I learned later, the number of questions peaked just before I entered, and it felt like I had finally settled down while applying question restrictions, etc. I am grateful to the senior monks for their hard work.
In June, on a daytime TV program called “Vikings,” what I answered on hasunoha appeared on the broadcast. I was happy.
I tried to read through most of the questions, so I read your questions even though I hadn't answered them until now.
I learned a lot about all kinds of problems, and that there are good ways to answer them.
I am also grateful for the relationship with you. Thank you very much.

So, what is my kanji for this year? Is it Hasunoha's “lotus”? Maybe it's the “phase” of the consultation? Is it the “cloth” of missionary work? I'll think about it a little more.

Good night then. I'll answer again depending on the circumstances. Please try again.

I read it.

I think you and we had a good relationship.

We look forward to working with you in the future.

I pray that every day will be rich in your heart in the future.

　I'm sure this is where life, counseling, and communication with the boy really starts.
“Goodbye,” is that OK?

PostScript
I don't know if you'll read this, but...
Your post is a great “question.” That's why the monks are responding. “If I said goodbye, what would you say?” I read that this is a question I want to ask.
So, the ball is back to you. Try throwing it again.