Sakura-sama
My name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.
You're in a situation where you don't want to take care of your mother.
The text conveyed my desire to accept my mother's death and let my mother leave more peacefully than my own, and my heart was warm and sad.
Even when you can't talk or when you're sleeping, if you, your precious daughter, are close to you, your mother will surely feel that warmth and feel at ease.
Even if you lose consciousness, the cells in your mother's whole body will feel the signs of her daughter you've spent decades with, and you'll feel at ease.
And if Sakura wasn't present at the end of her life, please don't lament. I often hear stories about how they can't stand that moment even though they've been nursing for a long time. Please don't lament and say words of gratitude to your mother.
Even after death, a person's life does not end in an instant like an electric switch. In particular, it seems that hearing lives until the end. So please say kind words to them.
And... don't forget to take care not only of your mother, but also of yourself.
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Not everyone can accept the death of an immediate family member that way, but I dared to touch on it a little bit in my first response. This is because I thought that if I had avoided it at all, my upset might increase when that happened.
In any case, they say that if you stay close to your mother, later grief will ease and be easier to accept. Even in that sense, I hope you can do what you can.
