hasunoha

I can't believe it...

Hello.
Thank you for helping me here before,
I can think more positively now than before.

Right now, I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for a year.
I used to take love counseling.
What was my unrequited love has come true and we are now able to have a relationship.

And yet, I don't really trust him.
Originally, the kid he liked was extremely cute.
She's cute, natural, and the kind of girl boys really want to protect her.

Compared to that, I...
They look like they are being bullied because of their appearance.
Trying to at least make sure that my personality doesn't get bad
I try to do a lot of things every day.
But it's no match for someone he liked.
they're too far apart,
I can't believe he likes me.

He says he doesn't like it anymore,
It makes me think I still like it no matter what.
Because of that, it made him feel sad.

I've accumulated anxiety until now.
However, there have been many things that have overlapped recently,
The limit has been reached.

But I don't want to break up.
I think I have no choice but to believe in it.
But I can't believe it.

In order to trust him little by little,
What kind of effort should I make??

I and he are both in the 3rd year of high school

4 Zen Responses

Where is beauty

Nice to meet you, Tayu-san.

This is Nakamura Taishaku from Tokushima Prefecture, the temple of Dharma and ceiling paintings.

Tayu has a boyfriend of 1 year since we started dating, and you can't believe him. You don't know why Tayu-san was chosen by comparing her girlfriend, whom he used to like, and Tayu-san.

Where is beauty?

In the picture book “Mud Kabura,” the main character is a girl with the nickname Muddy Kabura, who is dirty like mud, has a bad mouth, and is ridiculed and bullied by others. She is told by an old traveling man, “You're a good boy.” I don't know why I'm covered in mud because I can't believe myself.
I ask an old traveling old man, “What should I do to clean up the mud.” Then, I'll tell you the three secrets.
1. Don't feel ashamed of your face
2. Smile at any time
3. Thinking in the human body

I'm sure Tayu-san falls into one of these categories. I think that's why he turned to Tayu-san and wanted to go out with Tayu-san as his girlfriend.

Please work hard so that you can do all three.
Beauty is not what it seems.

Incidentally, please see the picture book “Mud Kabura” to see what happened when the Mud Kabura accomplished the three things taught by the traveling old man. A moving ending is written.

Love and have nothing to regret 

A girl I know has been searching for her ex-boyfriend on SNS even after she got married. There's no way, is there?
But let's say that it's because my husband is bored, boring, and doesn't feel loved.
Even so, there's nothing wrong with that.
First, why don't you really work hard and love them?
Why don't you try your best than your previous girlfriend?
Appearance has nothing to do with the depth of love or the warmth of love.
If your former girlfriend comes to mind and you're in jolly mode, if you give him a lot of love with that cheerful energy, he'll be happy, and you'll be delighted, and it's two birds with one stone. (lol)
Even though the older brothers and older sisters who work in the night industry all look like people of the opposite sex, the number one most popular store is not necessarily ❝ face ❞.
What's the trick? Talks are interesting, they listen to the other person carefully, and they seem to be people who stand up properly.
First, why don't you talk about your true feelings?
Why don't you have a soulful and heart-hearted conversation that transcends men and women?
Once you start dating, it's not over.
If you don't have a deeper, deeper emotional exchange than your ex girlfriend, unfortunately, you'll be more flimsy.
I want to be loved, and even if I don't get it, and I regret it, I quickly forget that.
More than that, I think the fact that you didn't love him as a person and as a partner is something you'll regret a lot when you break up.
It's about working hard, doing your best, and loving. It's about getting to know him.
Still, if anything about her remains, it's the person up until then.
There is someone who is looking for your love, so all you have to do is love that person.
Don't just want to be loved and happy.
We should hope to be pleased by loving.

Of the three occupations of body, speech, and intention, 2 are yours

There are three types of human behavior: body, mouth (words), and mind (mind).
Your boyfriend is actually dating you (body). And you're saying (saying) that you don't like other girls anymore.
But you're uneasy because you can't see his intentions (heart).
The human mind is sometimes flustered. Once you graduate from high school, any number of attractive people of the opposite sex will appear around you.
So it's hard for his heart to always be completely yours, and conversely, it's tough to ask your boyfriend for it.
But he does at least use his two jobs, body and mouth, for you.
Isn't that enough?
There is also a possibility that he admires idols and actresses in his heart, and there is also a possibility that he is attracted to beautiful clerks in his neighborhood.
Even so, you are in control of 2 out of 3 jobs, so please relax the reins with plenty of time.

Where are you looking

Did he choose the way he saw you with your own eyes?
He chose you with his eyes, right?

If you don't believe him, he won't believe you either.

Take a good look at him before you worry about how he's being viewed.