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I want to be someone's number one.

I have a strong desire to get married and have a family, but I've never been confessed until now, and I cry every day thinking I'll be alone for the rest of my life.

I compare my appearance and personality with my friends who have boyfriends, and my self-evaluation gets lower and lower.

I want someone to accept me as I am. How can we be freed from everyday life?

5 Zen Responses

Are your parents beautiful men and women?

Are your parents beautiful men and women?
Excuse me, but there are a lot of people who are married even if they aren't beautiful.
Well, you have to have high hopes.
Also, if someone doesn't confess, how about confessing it yourself?
It seems that there are many boys who want women to confess.
First, act like you're meeting lots of men, and if you have even a slightly good man, why don't you confess more and more.
You can hit it with a few shots. It's a matter of probability.
The reality is surprisingly simple and easy to understand.
Even your parents were able to get married, so can you.

You have trapped the charm

Life becomes very difficult when you worry about the public eye. It should be like this, I'll never host it, etc. Delusions are free and have no negative basis, and they are dragged in the wrong direction.

If there's someone I think would be nice, I'll call out. I'm going to a place where people gather. If you only live once, don't be passive, take action, and live a relaxed life, your hidden appeal will be transmitted more and more to the outside world.
Let's break out of the negative chain by taking positive action.

Start with yourself

Aoshun will respond.

If you want to be loved by someone, the first thing to do is to love yourself

It's not about being in love or falling in love, it's about loving

Even though Sakura wants to be chosen for herself,
Are you hoping to love someone

To put it bluntly, people who want you to cherish “start with yourself” are not attractive

No matter how pretty I look, I don't think I'm attractive, and I'm unlikely to choose a partner

It's easy to imagine how difficult it is to build a good long-term relationship (laughs)

If you turn your thoughts on your own axis outward, people become attractive

If it's your own axis, an inferiority complex is created, and when that happens, it becomes difficult to like yourself
Also, people who don't like themselves give off an aura of unhappiness, and I think those who want to actively get involved with such people are in the minority

If you turn your consciousness outward from your own axis, a positive atmosphere will come out, and relationships with people will expand, and you will inevitably be more likely to be favored by others

I'm not a romance professional, but I would be happy if it was helpful

Gassou amidabutsu

By loving someone the most

First, starting tomorrow, the good thing is to hurry up and go to a place where people with the same hobbies as you gather. Three three
This is because people with common interests and common values come together with you.
If you're going to have a conversation with someone of the opposite sex there, open your mouth and use only words that stand up to the other person, such as compliments, nystos, yoisho, age age, “as expected, unbelievable, amazing, the best in the world, I respect you.”
Let's be called Motemote-sama within six months. (-omega-)
There's no such thing as a face at all.
Whether it's a woman or man with any kind of unique face, they are all happy to get married.
Men feel close to people of the opposite sex who have the same values.
Just as you want to be recognized and loved, men are favored when a woman who recognizes them appears. If you don't have confidence in your face, at least be a beautiful woman with a smile and a beautiful word.
First, think of all men as solitary chickens. (lol)
Male chickens have chicken tendrils. Men are made to wither because of that lust.
I'm looking for a girl who can cheer up that man's withering Tosaka.
When you meet a man you like, throw in home-home words with the attitude that I am the one who understands you the most.
Within a year you will be able to get married.
However, be careful.
Whether you're a lover or a married couple, it is said that the more your values are perfect, the better.
Mr. Y, who got divorced in her 50s, says the following.
“Tange, if you get married, it's all about hobbies, food, lifestyle, everything! You'd better marry everyone who's the same.”
“Huh? Isn't it because they're different that they're attracted to each other?”
“No, no. I thought that too when I was young. It's different when it comes to this year. I have miso soup for gohan. Try serving bread in the morning. I'm on the verge of going crazy. I like miso soup. Try serving hot miso soup every day. I'm on the verge of going crazy.”
“But weren't you told that you didn't like that?”
“So... I'm talking about how it's OK to say that if you're married to a woman who has the same values, you can avoid getting divorced.”
“hey”
Well... even a human being alone is fine.
I have no choice but to live for myself.

Please be your own number one

Nice to meet you, Sakura-san.

What did Sakura think of herself by comparing her appearance and personality to her friends who have boyfriends?

Look at yourself in the mirror and analyze your personality, and most people have complaints and complexes to a greater or lesser extent.

But isn't someone who has a boyfriend necessarily beautiful or cute from your point of view?
Why that person? It's not uncommon for people to think that.

If you're simply popular, you might just look good, but it's a different story when it comes to being loved.
Appearance has nothing to do with love.

Of course, people who are loved have personalities, but they always have something that shines in their way of life.

There is something I can sympathize with or learn about that person's way of life, such as the appearance of devoting themselves to something, how to get involved with people, a little bit of kindness...
Aren't people drawn to places like that?

It may also be necessary to actively appeal, but if you bring the appeal to the front, there will be places where you mislead yourself or force yourself to create yourself.

If you get along with someone who falls in love with the person you created, you will surely overwork yourself in the near future.

If you are someone who loves you just the way you are, you will be able to build a good family even if you get married.

Sakura has an honest eye that allows her to look down on herself compared to her surroundings.

People who look above themselves always develop “arrogance” somewhere.
It is because you put yourself down that you can improve from there, and you can also find good points.

Now, it's a good opportunity to let go of your worries here.
Why don't you take this opportunity to start refining yourself?

People who have fun getting carried away with anything can shine brightly from their surroundings.
In that brilliance, there are no lies I made or misled myself.
You shine just the way you are.

It's not about getting a boyfriend, you can have a boyfriend.

That way, I'm sure happy developments await you in the future.

Please find the best you among yourself, not someone else's number one.

Then you're sure to be someone's number one.