I read your question.
If I lost someone important or close to me due to terrorism, etc., I would be furious, and I don't think I can forgive it. I think I want to kill terrorist groups, and anger and sadness won't get out of my head for a long time.
... I think the question is “what's the problem.” I definitely don't want to lose my “loved ones,” “people I don't know,” and I want “people I hate” to disappear. Isn't the “obvious” problem that I live in such a human society where it is normal to think so and there is nothing else?
Certainly, there is definitely such a side, but originally, all lives are equal. I think it is necessary to live with not only a human perspective, but also a life perspective at the same time.
From a human point of view and from my point of view, it is always a stance of “owning” something. I will increase the number of things (people) that are important to me. Naturally, it comes with the fear and suffering of not wanting to lose it.
Isn't there a life perspective or a natural perspective? Everything is equal, and there is absolutely no relationship between owning and being owned. Everything just remains as it is.
Originally, all lives are equal, but if we are aware that we are living whatever we please for our own convenience, I think it will become an appropriate way of life, and I think we can maintain a good relationship with obsession (feeling that we want or don't want to lose) and worry (feelings that only come from my point of view).
It can also be said that there is no such thing as a state of nothlessness, and not forgetting your life perspective may lead to that.
Although terrorism is absolutely unforgivable.